i've been dating this man 3 months , he is 42 years old and i 'm 22 , i never see him except webcam , he lives abroad , all my life i never fall in love with guy at 20 or 30 years , i like those over 40 years caues they are wise , rich , have good experience in life , and specially men who are travelling
I feel happy when chatting with him , specially talking in sex i feel he understand all my needs and i understand his , when he was at my age he used to think , rebel aganist as i do , but i' m not like girls when i love someone i always dream of him or miss him or don't live without him and i can separate easily if he dominate me or even i feel some changes in his feelings toward me . by the way he is divorsed and having 2 young daughters ... he asked me to marrry him but i told i 'm not thinking of marriage now althought i love him i'm always afraid of marriage i 'm sure marraige kills love . do i really love .. he is travelling soon to see me
2007-03-23 22:52:09 · 4 answers · asked by blau_fau 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as an expert lover, i advise you to always remember: stay on top of any situation, you should be the one in control of your life and not your man.
Because all of us should be the masters of ourselves.
It is you who mentioned you have never experienced being inlove or may be in a relationship yet, and the fact you haven't determined your true feelings for him, that means you're still not in love with him.
Before you commit yourself to him, it is best advised that you do not flirt, but you may still open your hearts to other men, so you could have the best choice, the best man of your life. And you'll never know if you stick with just one option.
Knew also he had a divorce and 2 daughters already.
I'm pretty sure before he got married, he had been into lots of relationships as well. So as a counselor, i advise that it is unfair on your part if you didn't have enough time to decide for your self. Because what's important is your own happiness.
Happiness is best shared with somebody you love most. And I'm now with the man i love most.
Hope you won't regret with your decisions, so you should not rush.
You're still young, i'm just 2 years ahead of you and i've had 2 serious relationships already, 1 five year long distance rel, and 1 4 month rel, and i learned a lot from those relationships. I am sharing you my advise because i want the best for you just what i am experiencing now. I believe i had my best choice today and we're getting married.
Note: You haven't met him, there are lots of things he never tell you, and you still don't know. You just get to know that man if he's living with you already for at least 1 - 2 months, so please don't fall yet. Fall in love with the right and best guy. Pray, and ask for guidance, strength and enlightenment.
Good luck and God Bless!
2007-03-23 23:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 Months + 42/22 = 2 Years, you need to know him for 2 years before you decide to marry him or say yes for his proposal.
However, you are free to sleep with him to understand his sex drive and so on... Coz as 22 you have more desire and urge towards sex than 42.
Guess you got me...
2007-03-24 05:59:05 · answer #2 · answered by boyklitz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your decision about marriage, AFTER you see him. I think you have fallen in love with him.
2007-03-24 05:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry no advice,this your personal life,do as your heart say.but only trust your eyes and ears.dont get carried away.
2007-03-24 05:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by toploser 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋