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2007-03-23 22:19:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I recommend love marriage. In my view, before a married relationship, It is very good if the man and woman know and understand each other. If a couple had truly love each other and get married according to their wish, their love will be carried on forever and their life will be very much enjoyable. In such a case they will continue their love after marriage too. But there is no problem in arranged marriage if it is done with the full agreement of the couple. I really think anyway that love marriage is better.
2007-03-23 22:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Intensive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, i've seen examples of both that succeeded and others that failed...
Love marriage is amazing ofcourse, but sometime the couple get blinded by the name of 'love' and overlook other issues that r equally important as love. In this case, life will eventually be impossible and love will die due to the other differences.
Arranged marriage can be very successful in cases, coz if the marriage was arranged and a person with good qualities is chosen then there is a likely chance that the couple will love each other after a while. However, the opposite might happen..
In conclusion there r no predictions in marraige and all is fair in love and war!!
2007-03-23 22:27:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would think that people in a "love" marriage would work harder to make a marriage work!
However, many people in a "love" marriage have never had the really important discussions that are necessary for an successful marriage!!
However, in an arranged marriage, many of the "critical" elements have already been decided by relatives and the couple only needs to decide individual issues.
2007-03-23 22:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love marriages are better for sure. Only through love can the couples understand and care fore each other truly.Unfortunately, there are many opposed to it. They say it is a wrong way of life. That is absurd & false. Without love, what marriage? Marriage is to be done with the one you really love. Love finds us a perfect partner for life. If love marriages fail or fail to happen, it is due to the stupid opposition to it, especially inter-caste. All people have the right to love & marry the one they like.
This is not written against arranged marriages, only supporting love marriages. The way of marriage is one's right. Only that no forcing.
2007-03-23 23:09:55 · answer #4 · answered by Chaste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage based on love is better than an arranged marriage where you don't have the opportunity to date this person and find out if you two are compatible.
2007-03-23 22:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think a love marriage, because to me, that's what marriage is about, plus, why would you want to have kids and sacrifice so much for someone you didn't love? I imagine sooner or later you could come to see them as a goldbricker and then you would leave, cheat on them, or find an, ummm, alternate way out of the marriage.
2007-03-23 22:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arranged marriage will lasts more with no love but love marriage will be over soon with love!!
however, after marriage love goes & nothing remain but respect & if respect lacks then its over!!
2007-03-23 22:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course a marriage with love. How can anyone handle being thrown into a marriage with a stranger? It's just wrong.
2007-03-23 23:17:03 · answer #8 · answered by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the question of understanding eachother. You cannot distinguish it until you see the results. It is said that marriages are decided in heaven and performed on earth. The success of it lies in how finetune you with your partner. You can see many love marriages turned in to bloody battlefields and many arranged marriages lasting till god make them apart.
So trust in eachother. understanding each other and keeping the right attitude is vital ingradiants of a successful marriage.
2007-03-23 22:28:38 · answer #9 · answered by KVISHWAS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long term love marriage that the two people really know each other in the bed and out of the bed.
2007-03-23 22:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋