I was v happy in my childhood though I didnt have a perfect or good family atmosphere but in my surroundings I found it. I mean I had it in my neighbours a family environment and I used to feel apart of them but this happiness was not for a long time, my family moved out from that place and shifted in a new place and house, I was around 9 yrs old then.
After that I suffered loneliness I didnt have a good frnd or frnd till the age of 19 then I started going to coll and then frnds came into my life.
Even today I dont have good family environment and unconsciouly I try to find that family in my frnds and where I feel I can find. My prob is I make my own stories and family atmosphere in my mind, where I create characters for myself, like a mother, father, sister, brother, lover and many other who cares for me and who loves me alot.
I want to know is it a healthy thing? The love, the family, the friends I want and I dont have I create them in my imagination, is it a good sign? pls hlp
2007-03-23 22:18:31 · 11 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Whatever makes you happy is acceptable. Who am I to give you advise. Your question makes me feel sad and so I wish only happinesss for you whatever that takes.
Best wishes from
Your big brother
2007-03-23 22:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by thinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear that you had a lonely childhood...you've missed out on growing up and all the fun and excitement that goes with it. I don't blame you for imagining how it should be...you're looking to the future and making plans. It's a good sign that you don't foresee more loneliness and sadness! You're optimistic. I wish you all the luck in fulfilling your dreams! The life you deserve is waiting for you - be patient and it will find you!
2007-03-23 23:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Shaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's far better than wallowing in unhappiness about what u don't have.
Mayb one day u'll start ur own family - a good loving one that'll make up for it.
good luck
2007-03-23 23:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 08:15:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unhappy people often keep looking for what life should be when you get a partner you will make sure you get a happy family so babe one day you will get what you are looking for good luck xx
2007-03-23 22:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by susan will of the wisp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds unhealthy. But then, everyone does this to some extent. As long as it doesn't make you a whackjob, I would say that it's okay. As long as you keep it in your head.
2007-03-23 22:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's better to share ur life with the people who can listen and advice even friends not parents only can be ur family
2007-03-24 00:29:17 · answer #7 · answered by sobrano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound healthy for example how many people create *IMAGINARY* families you should go and chat to you doctor about your new family.
2007-03-24 05:52:02 · answer #8 · answered by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even i imagine a lot of things......a whole new atmosphere for myself.....my new frnds....boyfrnds.....mom dad.....that r not real...but i love to think abt my life in a different way.....n its gud....its not a prob....i think its normal......coz wen i imagine i think of d things i really want in real life but i dnt hv them.....n it refreshes my mind.....
2007-03-23 22:27:45 · answer #9 · answered by SIM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal, I know people who do exactly the same thing.
2007-03-23 22:42:23 · answer #10 · answered by TotalShopaholic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋