ok there goes, he is gay, and has a boyfriend, and a million sex buddies. We ahve been exchanging emails for months and where he kept sending mi\xed signs of affection. the result is that I grew emotionally attached to him. Then he left to take care of some work outside the country, and whenever I sent him an email he would answer with one sentence, like sorry I am too busy.
Was it a mistake that I told him i love him? Was he baiting me to fall in love with him and maybe have sex with him only to leave me behind?
please help
2007-03-23 21:42:52 · 8 answers · asked by Mahyar I 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
we both knew from the beginning that there would be no sex between us, he was still keen to meet me, and he showed an unusual interest in me and my life.
Do you think it was just a bait?
2007-03-24 01:41:58 · update #1
It was not a mistake tht you told him you love him, it was a disaster....the mistake was you loving him when you already know that he has a boyfriend and a lots of sex buddies....Is it only physical attraction matters to you....You should've known by now that he is not interested in you...why are you wasting your life after him...Look around there are lots of lovely, handsome gays/men around you who will love you as you love them..
God Bless You.
2007-03-24 04:46:10 · answer #1 · answered by Sam- the "big boss" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its very obvious that all he wants from you or all he wanted from you was sex. And my dear i believe you knew that already because you are telling us that he has a boyfriend and millions of sex budddies. I think that the reason he tells you he is too busy its because he doesn't has the time for you because he knows how you feel about him and he is not interested in that with you. Just move on, you deserve better. I'm pretty sure there is a guy outhere for you that would love you just the way you deserved it. Good luck and think about it.
2007-03-23 23:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lost In Translation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously man, someone like that doesn`t care for you. It sucks I know. But if you are just exchanging emails with him then really you should not have fallen in love with him. I think probably you think he is hot. That's called LUST!!!!! find someone in the real world that is nice and good to you. And man come one the guy has a million sex partners.....Geez you trust that guy. I wouldn't want anything to do with that man at all. He is not worth your time. find someone else better Than that jerk......
2007-03-23 22:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by littlecubanman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he intentionally did that if you were only sending E-mails back and forth - And it sounds like you knew his preference before hand - So I would take that into consideration before you react to him harshly - Now if you have literally been with him with no knowledge at all then you have a right to be upset even more than you are - It will take time for you to let go - And it makes me angry when people do that to other people - Just because they think they can -- Good Luck and give your self time
2007-03-23 21:58:29 · answer #4 · answered by pattijohughes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple... maybe you refused to slee with him. have you heard of the golden rule that the way to a man's heart is through his balls or stomach? That if you turned up naked in a man's apartment and he does not get an erection then you should make him a sandwitch? Could you have disobeyed this golden rule? Search within (or between) .. there lies the answer
2007-03-23 21:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by bbett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a "million" sex buddies??...geez...Just be glad he's not your boyfriend!!!....
2007-03-23 21:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
sorry but he's just not that into you
2007-03-23 21:47:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a gal dude
2007-03-23 21:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by Kabir 1 · 1⤊ 3⤋