I can't help but fantasize about other girls while in bed with mine. Yeah...I know it's wrong, but I just wanna know if there's anybody out there that does the same thing. ...so it's not really a question.
2007-03-23 21:36:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yup, and there's a few reasons. First, you're not really tuning in to her, you're off in your own la la land (which is kinda not what this whole sleeping together thing is about). Second, a lie is a lie, whether or not you say it out loud. Third, this is supposed to be a great act of intimacy, not recreation.
I know I sound a little harsh, but really...if, after a great night of passion, you found out that the whole time she was pretending that you were her co-worker, would you really want to stick around?
2007-03-24 02:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by napualisto 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I can tell you that is natural for men. Men fantasize because they are visually stimulated. That's the way you are made. You would get bored to death if you didn't have other images in your mind even if you were married to the Playboy Bunny of the Year!! Listen though: The most important thing is never to tell a woman that. We are not made the same way and that particular truth hurts us no matter what we tell you. So it's normal and if you're smart, you won't ever talk about it. @8-)
2007-03-24 06:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasizing like this is harmless if you keep it to yourself. It would hurt your girlfriends feelings if you told her. Don't sweat the small stuff. Enjoy yourself!
2007-03-24 05:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by QuantumB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if she was on here asking the same question. If you are sleeping with the girl exersise some integrity, think baseball,baseball,baseball
2007-03-24 04:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mc Fly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many many people do this at least now and then, dont worry its ok.
Dont tell her about it.
2007-03-24 05:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by janne5011 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋