makes rude comments toward me- I told my husband and he says "i was not there" "so i cannot judge what went on". I had to go home to my country 2 times recently, due to family crises, (I have no sisiters or brothers to help in family crises- I am an only child) she said to me "if you had a sister in australia, then you will tell your husband i wanna hop on a plane and head to australia to visit my sister", she also said that i thought that you were not coming babck home????? WHAT MUST I DO???
2007-03-23 21:15:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
based on what i have said before- my husband and i are friends with this woman and her husband. She is always making snide comments in a "nice " way, and I am tired of it. Yesterday I approached my husband, because she said that he said stuff about me too... I did not like that and I warned him against her- taht she is trying to make trouble and put comments of our lives. The problem is that he won't see the truth or support me (I am his wife, and he should support me) , but he instead makes me out to be Mary Magdalene, while she is Mother Teresa... !!! He is supoosed to understand me and accept what i say... I also feel this friend likes my husband and wants to put me down for her own reasons (but that is just a feeling)
2007-03-23 22:27:50 · update #1
There is a thing called destiny. Believe in it, and be happy.
2007-03-31 03:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by nanhowala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are u complaining.....u have not told us the whole story. Normally I would be blunt to the point of rudeness, but I can see ur offended so re explain what happened and maybe i could help u out better.
2007-03-24 04:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by A.K. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, your problem is like a Merry-Go-Round, it seems to keep going in circles, and you want to get off the ride. If it was happening to me personally, I would casually bring it up in front of all four (4) of you, either someone is going to realize that they are hurting your feelings, or ' as ta la vista, baby ' as a friend. Enough is ENOUGH, period !! I wish you much Good Luck, and God Bless !!
2007-03-31 19:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by fuzzypetshop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your husband and get rid of the girlfriend. You're asking him to make a judgement when he wasn't there...you're an adult...deal with your own friends
2007-03-24 04:46:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't make any sense! Do they not teach basic grammar in Austrialian schools?
Your husband probably answered that way because you're whining and not making any sense and it's the safest answer.
2007-03-24 04:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, if you don't like something your friend says to you - why are they still your friend? I don't understand what you expect your husband to do; it's between you and a friend of yours, and what you need to do is to tell this so-called "friend" to bug off.
2007-03-24 04:20:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he is just trying to make u understand her side so u wont make any rash decisions concerning ur friend. u want him to be on ur side at all times, and thats cool, i would to, but maybe is rationale iwill give u her pt of view. or maybe he is being an *** on purpose
2007-03-31 23:00:58 · answer #7 · answered by tOOSw33t4Words 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, the mouth belong to her, you cant stop people open their fat mouth. ask yourself why you get upset for a small things like that? let her words control your emotions? and spoil the day ahead? it is sound very silly? grown up, little girl!
2007-03-24 04:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worried uselessly. Breakup your friendship and love your husband without any doubts
2007-03-31 23:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by james love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your girlfriend to go f*** herself. what do you expect your husband to do? YOUR FRIEND is being rude to YOU. You need to resolve the issue with her.
2007-03-24 04:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋