do guys ever look at their sister or female relative breasts? what would make a man do this? what are u thinking cuz i have caught my brother (he is 18) looking at my breasts when i bend over wearing a tank top, no bra, to clean out the fridge and he was barely listening to me. he notice i know and he turned away, we were both embarrassed, lol.
2007-03-23 21:01:26 · 16 answers · asked by mariah2480 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
see this is the problem... sexual behaviour is an animal behaviour, it's instinctive and something that has evolved over hundreds of thousands of years. The ethical, moral, and legal views or laws about how we should all behave is a relatively new. These moral views and laws are not part of our physical evolution but of our social evolution they are what is required for us to co-exhist peacefully. the human brain has been described to have two layers of functioning, one basic, survival oriented part that controls hunger, emotions such as fear and agression and the instinct to reproduce and another higher functioning part that is the centre of creativity and concious thought it is this part of the brain that seperates us from the rest of the animal kingdom as it is much more highly evolved than any other. the part of the brain in your brother that responds to the site of your body (or and female body to be honest) does not rationalise who the body belongs too and if it is right or wrong to be looking at it. It is seeing a chest and responding, this is prfectly natural, what happens next, is the concious mind engages when provoked by you becoming aware of what's happening and then he realised what he was doing and the brain quickly references his moral guidebook (which we all get as we grow up) realises it was wrong and results in him being embarrassed and feeling guilty. i'm sure he probably felt much worse than you in that situation lol im sure you'll both be fine. :o)
2007-03-23 21:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by xx_connor_uk_xx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's young and he's curious. Just because he was looking at your breasts does not necessarily mean that it was in a sexual way. But, if it happens again SAY SOMETHING. I know I would. Something like "Hey I'm your sister, what are you staring at." Also, if you don't want him to look...then don't bend down in front of him with a tank top without a bra.
I wouldn't make a big deal about it. Did he see you naked too?
2007-03-24 03:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by Seablanco1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Curiosity, he proabaly never had a girl friend. Not to be mean, but brest themselves are very interesting to guys, but they alone do not means sexual attraction. Women can use them along with words and body language to make men crazy, but I assure you, cleaning out refridgerator is not one of them. A girl I consider one of my closest friends was messing with me one day saying that she wanted me to look at her breasts. I was on the phone working at a resturant taking an order, and she kept jumping around say that she wanted to look at her breast. Her shirt was on, but she kept putting her cleavage right in my face, and then. My unconcious mind took hold. I reached over pulled the collar of her shirt toward me and looked at he perfectly shaped C sized chest. The only thing I could say was "those are the best breats I have ever seen." I don't feel any sexual attraction to her, shes still one of my closest female friends.
2007-03-23 21:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Heero Yui 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because he looks at you doesn't mean he wants to jump you. T&A is good to look at. That is what he was doing. If I dont have one I will look at yours if given an opportunity period.
2007-03-23 23:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not! However, I don't know what people would do in the case of a step-sister etc
2007-03-23 21:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by David R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of coz. Boys always like to see breast.
2007-03-23 21:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sherman V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was probably just thinking "hey look at that... my little sister is a grown up ~ nice set too.. well done. good one... holy crap.. she saw me checking her out... why was I checking her out? ... holy crap.. how embarrasing.. now what do I say...crap. " ... ~ or whatever. He is your brother. Not like he has in mind to cop a feel of those hush puppies. He just had a proud moment... and forgot the implications if you spotted him.
2007-03-23 21:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by Icy Gazpacho 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your bother is young and can have desires that does'nt mean he desiers your brest...you must always be precatious over your style of dressing.this means you wont feel akward or embarrassed that they are looking at you.
2007-03-23 21:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO not at all not every one stares there sis breast but stare at others breast
2007-03-23 21:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by MADDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe once.
But that's messed up though.
2007-03-23 21:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by , 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋