how to be liked by everybody? i dont have any friends. i mean any good friends. how to find good friends?
2007-03-23 20:11:39 · 19 answers · asked by samani 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
but i dont have any good friends who understand me. and i thing my behavior is very bad. if i behave as i am, how can i have some very good and true friends?
2007-03-23 20:53:56 · update #1
Just be youself~
2007-03-23 21:05:38 · answer #1 · answered by ~§~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need not have to change yourself... People loving your nature will come to you automatically... If you change for others sake you will never feel comfiratable... But your words you can keep people closer to you... Never feel that a person is a Good or Bad friend till your bad days come and he stays with you forever.... Always have a smile on your face.... Greet People you know with Hi, GM GN GE etc.... Be active in all the activities you like... Find a person with same tastes and preference....
Don't tell that you don't have friends... We are friends... Try to cultivate the idea in you that the whole world is your friend....
Then you don't you feel that you lack friends......
I have tried it... I have succeeded... I got through the same situation what you are facing now.... This may seem to be nonsense.... But it helps a lot.....
2007-03-24 10:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by sumanth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Samani,
I will love to be your friend for ever and ever , you have such a kind heart that you are asking for a friend, but in todays world people are trying to have more and more enemies."
Do one thing take dozen roses and stand in front of the mirror and you will see the 13 most beautiful things in the world. I mean it.
So never compare yourself with others, be happy within yourself , if you will compare you will suffer from ego or jealousy.
You will surely get one good friend I know you will.
2007-03-24 06:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by RUBY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot be liked by everybody , as for making good friends - forget the externals such as looks and popularity,
look for people with the same values as you, that you respect and that respect you. look for people that you can develop
together as people. rules of thumb:
an acquaintance is someone that will call you friend but is there when they need something but not when you need help. good friends will push you out of the way of the bullet,
best friends will take the bullet for you.
2007-03-24 03:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by chazzn101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have diff friends that do/have diff hobbies/lifestyles. Some are married, some are just dating, some are party-people. Ive known them for years,...and it takes time to know if you can trust them-to establish the good kinda friends, but more importantly to be fully comfortable around them like they are family. You can never please everybody all of the time, but you can just try to be yourself. You don't choose your friends, they choose you.
2007-03-24 03:16:32 · answer #5 · answered by Noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody means?
human being?
why don't to be good to the animals,birds, insects.
why don't to be good to the stars, the clouds, the trees, the rivers, the ocean, the water, the land and everything U know!
Start loving yoUr body, Ur mind Ur soul, ur thoughts, ur perceptions, ur personality. ur liking and dis likings then everything will be good for u. u will stat loving, living and laughing at life itself.
be my friend
2007-03-27 19:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by laloo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can be perfect. Just do it as you are. People don't like you if you do something that actually are not "you".
The important thing is, don't be shy to talk with others. Talking can make you near to them, especially in your first meeting with him/her.
2007-03-24 03:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by Chreonne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r not gud how u expect others 2 be loyal 2 u.So first foremost change ur attitude toward others
2007-03-24 06:26:39 · answer #8 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep a good nature in front of everybody ,try to be original ,don't show-off.
keep laughing!
2007-03-24 03:18:01 · answer #9 · answered by ms.gomez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can be good to everybody....try to build up your personality first....be sensible & compassionate....you will get friends.
2007-03-24 03:15:32 · answer #10 · answered by saumitra s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is totally upto u to have friends dear.. no body can help u there but u... but if u wanna be friends.. reply back... lets see if v can be friends..
2007-03-24 08:24:50 · answer #11 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋