My parents seem to think my brother is so perfect. With a wife, kid, college degree, in the military, good job, etc.. I feel that when I'm around them that they look down on me. Because I'm not anything like him. Is your family anything like that?
2007-03-23 19:44:27 · 17 answers · asked by beyondthelimit 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm not jealous, I don't want his life. I was just curious if this happens to others.
2007-03-23 19:49:36 · update #1
yip exactly the same but with my sister but you know i have come to learn that it only makes me value my uniqueness more you are truly your own individual there are plenty things about you that your brother would have loved to blessed with. do yourself a favor dont let that bother you one bit.. it not worth the heart ache just remember when you have kids love them equally
2007-03-23 19:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
evaluate sitting down along with your mom (and pa?) while they're obtainable and in oftentimes sturdy moods. Or tell your mom you need to talk to her on my own while she had it sluggish. show your concerns. no longer, that your sister have been given different issues you probably did no longer yet, you notice regulations that are diverse with regard to you. additionally, your moms and dads are doing no favors by utilising letting your brother sleep in or giving your sister those issues. you're gaining expertise of a thank you to grow to be a in charge person. this is your moms and dads objective. Your brother would by no ability desire to awaken for a job he will sometime have. Your sis would by no ability comprehend the fee of a dollar. in simple terms recognize deep down that those regulations your moms and dads have are reaping rewards you whether it does look unfair what you have now. you would be a waiting person with the kit your moms and dads are instilling in you. sturdy success!
2016-10-01 10:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I didnt realize it until family members pointed it out. My mom bought my bro a laptop one year for christmas and I got a pen a pen ok not an expensive one either. Can't deny that one. Dont stress over it though. We are all good now she is way better than before and our relationship has improved.
2007-03-23 19:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by vchild22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah and it sucks*pout*It's like I'm not even there unles achore needs to be done.And he always beats me up and they do nothing but watch or ignore my screamng.He's a 17 yr old football player and I'm 13 yr old girl.It's not so fun.
2007-03-23 19:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Black kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Growing up my mother favored my brother ,who is the 2nd oldest for some reason.
2007-03-23 19:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by one10soldier 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom has always loved my younger sister more. Now we are all grown up and she is still taking care of her. It hurts, but I am stronger for it. I will never do this to my kids when I have them.
2007-03-23 19:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my younger sibling is a prize kid.
so even if they favour her,i don't mind.
i love her too much.
but i don't think my parents favour her or anything but yes they appreciate her for being more meticulous at her age and i agree with them.
so there's no friction at home.
thanks.
cheers & god bless:-)
2007-03-23 19:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, it happen to me too, all the time. And you are right, I'm not jealous too as i believe in I am who I am.
2007-03-23 20:38:03 · answer #8 · answered by Celia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what you're good at and go for it.Don't compare yourself with anyone or else you're never going to be happy with yourself.
2007-03-23 19:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JOIN the party. MINE do the same thing. THEY are so bad i no longer go around them.
2007-03-23 19:47:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋