I don't want her pregnant of me, so I want her to abort as soon as possible but she's not sure about it. How couls I convince her to get it? Anyway, I'll dump her as soon as I could because I don't want something like that happen anymore. Please Help Me!
2007-03-23 19:36:10 · 32 answers · asked by UnHappyMe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Its NOT YOUR DECISION. It is her body and her choice.
You are a low life.
I hope to God she has this baby and robs your butt in child support.
Wear a condom moron.
2007-03-23 19:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by hollilynn 5 · 7⤊ 2⤋
exactly y are u wanting her to get rid of the child? how can u do that its ur child even if u do be responsible for what you did everyone in life makes mistakes but u have to live with it. And do u hate ur girlfriend that much to dump her and tell her to get an abortion. What kind of person are you? That child has a soul and a life already and he/she is a part of you and why did u get her pregnant if you didnt love her..wait that was probably ur mistake . If you do love her than you wouldnt tell her to abort the child and dump her that would make it even worse. And the fact that you would think that its better it you just left without a word than tell her that. (and please reread what you write cause it doesnt make any sense)
2007-03-23 19:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think your being a bit selfish? How does she feel about it? Does she want to abort, or does she want to keep the baby? Tell her how you really feel, without being rude. Tell her your not ready to be a father and that you think it would be best for her to have an abortion. But you can't force her to do anything she doesn't want to. But if she keeps the baby, don't be a deadbeat. Bailing on her while she's pregnant is a really lame thing to do. Try putting yourself in her shoes. She didn't get pregnant by herself. It's sounds like you guys are young, so she's probably really scared and confused right now. If you support her through her through this and show her that you care, maybe she'll be more likely to care about what you want as well.
2007-03-23 19:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ BuffaloGirl ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's her choice it takes to to tango meaning it takes to to make a baby if you didn't want to get her pregnant you should of kept your zipper up and not fooled around and had unprotected sex in the first place Make it a rule only go out with women that you would marry that will make it easier you can't convince her she has your baby inside of her Why are you gong to dump her she's pregnant with you baby When you sleep with a woman make sure she's the one you want to wake up in the morning to every morning for the rest of your life just in case this happens to you again but you have a responsibility to help her don't be a dead beat dad take responsibility for your actions
2007-03-23 19:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i dont believe abortions. if you dont want to have a family with her then leave. she might change her mind about keeping the baby. being pregnant is the most wonderful thing in the world that you could possibly be
2007-03-24 04:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have read your other post about being scared that your girlfriend has had to many abortions. That you are worried about her health and ability to have kids in the future.
Which is it do you really care for her or not? Are you just trying to get attention by posting lame questions? Or are you just that plan board that you have to waste everyone else's time?
2007-03-23 21:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by bowenthedog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm I hope your kidding that is so inhumane.
I would think you'd be a person who kicks dogs and shoots cats.
It is her decision if you don't want to have anything to do with her or the child you created then dump her, and leave her to her decision. Maybe she'll find a MAN who is worthy of being a father to the child.
Next time you decide to engage yourself in a intimate manner, wrap it up. If you can't handle the ramifications for your actions, don't do it at all.
Gosh that sounds mean doesn't it, but really killing an innocent baby because it's inconvient to you, now that is mean.
2007-03-23 19:43:12 · answer #7 · answered by lily 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Its HER choice and whatever she chooses goes. do her parents know? because if they know they will most likely be trying to convince her to get an abortion too. You dont have to be there but sometimes I wonder why guys get with girls and get them pregnant and leave obviously it had nothing to do with "love" and just lust..
i know its probably because you are young but hell im 16 and pregnant and my boyfriend is 17 and he is staying with me. He knows its my choice and he will stick with me through what ever i choose. but that may be because we were engaged for 3 months before i got pregnant. and have been together for over a year.
2007-03-23 19:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sarah♥ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just dump her now so she can have the baby alone. If you didnt want kids you should have been using protection.....kind of common sense. If she doesnt want an abortion now then just leave her alone. Sounds like she would be better off without you anyway
2007-03-23 19:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by nikki k 2 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Unfotunately it is her choice not yours, and all you can do to try and convince her is to put in your side of the story. You do realise though that if she has this child, you are liable for child support, whether you want the child or not. I hope for her sake that she thinks long and hard before going ahead. Having a child is alot of work.
2007-03-23 20:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Rofl. Poor you. You're acting like its her fault. And if she doesn't get an abortion and kill her unborn child it's all on her.
This has nothing to do with your girlfriend being diseased, so don't go acting like it's her fault and that if you leave her after, it'll never happen to you.
Wrap your junk and carry on. You should probably stop having sex. Seriously.
2007-03-23 20:32:23 · answer #11 · answered by itskatyo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋