She just kept hitting me and pulling my hair for no reson and so I told her secret ,now she's mad,and I told her to treat people the way you want to be treated,so now all of her friens who were originally my friends too,don't want to be my friends.HELP!
2007-03-23 19:04:34 · 4 answers · asked by Chibug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it will pass, its just a little temporary drama. If you act like nothing happened, neither will they.
2007-03-23 19:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, tough spot to be in. So you're just standing there and your friend comes up and starts slapping you and pulling your hair without saying anything about why she was upset? Maybe, if this is a friendship that you value and would like to maintain, you should try talking to her on neutral ground and in private. Tell her that you're sorry for telling her secret (only if you genuinely are sorry), and ask if she's willing to give the friendship another chance. You do need to find out why she was so angry and why she chose to react in such an aggressive manner.
(Think again about whether this is the kind of person you want to have as a friend.) See if she's willing to discuss what upset her, but only if you can both remain calm. You don't need more violence. It could be a simple misunderstanding, but I would hope that in the future she'll be able to deal with her problems in a more mature manner. If not, you really ought to look for other friends.
2007-03-23 19:22:21 · answer #2 · answered by PJPeach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does not sound like any friend to me. Friends don't abuse you!!!! And you telling her secret just to get back at her wasn't very smart either. Revenge is not the answer. Your friend could possibly be having some problems at home and needs serious help on anger issues. I say dump her, people who hit you for no reason are not your friends!!! Find some new people who like you for you and who won't abuse you. Does a parent, teacher, or some kind of adult know about her behavior? If not, i suggest you tell an adult right away. They can be a big help.
2007-03-23 19:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by f.o.b<3(: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand ,me and my best friend had a fight and my sold called other best friend .told her bad things about me and she told my best friend not to hang out with me ever again and we had already became friends that day so it ended up that my best friend had to chose and she chose me 1 because im always there for her
2.she said bad stuff about my best fiend 2
so u should ask your friend to forgive u and if she dosen't then u hae 2 ask is she is really your friend
good luck !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-23 19:58:54 · answer #4 · answered by sugar&spiceprincess101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋