2007-03-23 18:16:33 · 19 answers · asked by rosieluv2002 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
This is a decision for them....I personally dont agree with abortion. It is not a form of birth control. She needs to discuss the matter with her parents and see what her options are.
2007-03-23 18:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if she is in high school she should consider it. The baby would ruin her chances of finishing high school and she would probably won't be able to attend college. Plus, is this guy going to stay and care for his child? If he isn't that's another reason to consider abortion.Also, babies are costly. Hospital fees, doctor's appointments, diapers, medicine,food, and insurance are just some of the bills you have to pay. It would be very expensive. Does she or her boyfriend have enough money? But, on the other hand, if you think about it abortion is killing the innocent baby. If she doesn't believe in it, then let her keep it. Also, if he stays and cares for it, she could finish high school. Maybe not college right then, but it's something, isn't it?
2007-03-24 01:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by Megz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally I thin it depends on their situation. They need to think about things such as: are they planning on staying together? Would the father be willing to help support the mother finacially for the baby? Would the mother be able to provide for the baby if the father chose not to help? Are they willing to change their lives to best provide for the child? If they chose to abort , give the child up for adoptin, or to have the child, would they BOTH be EMOTIONALLY able to deal with that decision? In the end it is their decision, no one elses so they need to think about what will be best for them in the long run.
2007-03-24 01:46:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope she has this baby. She can choose adoption if she does not want to raise him/her. This is already a child, no matter how small they are. There is nothing in the world like giving life to a child. I couldn't imagine not having given life to my daughter. I look into her little face every day and am grateful for her. When she smiles at me, she is full of sunshine, like there is no one better in the world than her mommy! I am not saying it is easy being a parent, but the rewards are many.
2007-03-24 01:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by chantal_that's_me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is for them to decide. You do need to let her know that if she aborts the baby, it causes scaring on her uterus. Which could cause problems if she has a baby later on. It's no form of birth control, and she knew the risks before she did it. She needs to know that the baby already has a heart beat, and she isn't killing nothing. It is alive and human. She needs to think for a while on this before making her decision.
2007-03-24 01:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone tells you to jump of a bridge would you??? Why should she have an abortion because everyone suggests that... In my opinion it is her body and she can do whatever she wants to do with it... And everyone that tells her to abort it need to think if they would like to hear that, and if they would do it... And then suggest someone else should...
2007-03-24 01:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally up to them but I for one do not believe in abortion unless you have been raped. If you are mature enough to spread your legs and have sex then you should stand up for your actions. You who lay in the bed now make the bed!! And that is what you can tell them both!!
2007-03-24 01:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by mother of 3 angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe in killing something that doesnt deserve to die. that child didnt ask to be brought into this world, nor did it asked to be killed. If she doesnt want to keep the baby, i would suggest that she go though the pregnancy and give the child up for adoption. there are millions of cupples in the US that would pay for all of her medical expences and court cost to be able to adopt a heathly american child. tell her to go to plan parenthood and talk with them about adoption agencys around her and what her options are....
just dont tell her to kill the child... it isnt fair.
2007-03-24 02:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mama of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Is anyone thinking of the baby! Let her have the baby and give it up for adoption! The trama of killing a baby will stay with this girl for the rest of her life!
2007-03-24 01:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is tottally up to her, she shouldn't feel pressured to do either one. There are places out there that will talk to her about it. I think one is called "planned parenthood" and they help make the decision. I don't believe in abortion but that is just me.
2007-03-24 01:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by Brie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋