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Ok, This is what i did.

Lets say you are in 6th grade with me and I start calling you names just being a straight up bully to you. Then The monday that is coming up I say hello to you and be really nice to you here on out.

Would you forgive me?

2007-03-23 17:51:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

21 answers

im 22yrs old but when i was in 6grade if u were 2 call me names n be a straight bully with me i would straight punch u in the face n beat u down i use 2 fight alot of guys when i was younger so punching u in the face would make me feel better n of course i wouldnt forgive u n if u were 2 talk 2 me act like nothing happen i would beat u down again 4actin so fake

2007-03-23 17:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

If you really want forgiveness, you need to apologize!! You can't be mean to someone, and then expect them to just let it go without feeling some resentment toward you! Try this for an easy apology: "Hey, man, I am sorry I lost it last Friday -- I don't know what was the matter with me, but I shouldn't have treated you like that --- can you forgive me?" Even if the person says no, at least you will have tried to fix the problem, and you will know where you stand!

2007-03-24 00:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by Pearl's oldest daughter 2 · 0 0

Well first after you say hello you need to apologize for your actions. You need to ask your self why you were mean to this person in the first place, would you like it if that was YOU being bullied? Probably not. Do unto others as you would have done unto you. The Golden Rule. Live by it. Treat others as you would like to be treated. If you sincerely apologized and lived up to your word that you are going to "be really nice to you here on out" I would forgive you. Sometimes it's hard to forgive and forget. It's hard to forget things especially if they were cruel. So be nice to people there is enough evil in the world. Remember sometimes actions speak louder that words. : )

2007-03-24 13:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by RaRa 1 · 0 0

Well, first I would have to know the reasoning behind your bullying. Though there is no legitimate reason to bully someone, perhaps if you were sincere and apologized to me for it, explaining why, I might be forgiving. How ever if it was just for kicks or because I'm smaller or shorter than you, it'll take a lot longer to gain my forgiveness. It all really has to do with the reasons why you did it.

2007-03-24 18:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by Baroness D 1 · 0 0

It's a long time since I was in sixth grade but, on balance, I'd say yes. At that age, the now is predominant to such an extent that past insults fade very quickly. Adults, however, are a different story.

2007-03-24 00:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0 0

Hey! It takes a long time for people to forgive... besides if you all of a sudden were nice to me honestly i would think there was something wrong! then I would be concerned! If you tried to be friends and then were straight up nice and not mean to me all the time i would say maybe over time it would be better.

2007-03-24 00:58:15 · answer #6 · answered by Belby 1 · 0 0

Unless, you state your reasons why should you calling names. What is the basis of the name calling? What happened before your name calling? If your answers are acceptable, you will apologize and the one you are calling at will forgive you.

2007-03-24 03:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kyle J 6 · 0 0

NO...i was bullied in 6th grade- 11 years old- for having big breasts and to this day i dont like those people (i am in 7th grade-13 years old) u need to say that u are sorry and really mean it...then u need to try to stick up for them if they gt bullied and help them. dont do it again...it is one of the biggest reasons that teens commit suicide

2007-03-24 00:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by bush sucks nutz! 2 · 1 0

To forgive is one thing. Yes, I would. I don't think I would trust you right away and I wouldn't exactly forget. Just remember that Rome wasn't built in a day.

2007-03-24 00:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by SquirrelBait 5 · 0 0

Apologize.

2007-03-24 00:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0 0

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