In 4th 5th and 6th grade I really messed up with my popularity and girls. I was mean and still is today to everyone! But! I want that to change when i go back to school Monday.
But this is the thing i need help with. If I go to school and not be mean to anyone and get a attitude with anyone....
Will they forgive me for what I done?
Another thing is I am shy around girls! Idk why but help me become no shy to girls please!
Thanks in advance
2007-03-23 17:39:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Here is what you should do. Go to the ones you have been mean to and apologize to them. They will either accept your apology or don't accept it. At least you did what you had to do. Now, this changing about your attitude doesn't happen over night. If you say you are going to start treating people with respect, then do it! Stick to your own words and be accountable. Otherwise, you are going to end up that same mean person who everyone knows you of.
Treat people like you want to be treated. Treat everyone with respect and just be yourself. Don't be someone who you are not.
Now around girls? Be yourself and treat them with respect. Be polite, kind, and smile.
2007-03-23 17:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to change then you can, but the people that you have been mean to in the past you have to ask for their forgiveness. I hope that you have good luck with this. As for being shy around the girls just try going up and start with saying Hi this is a good ice breaker.
2007-03-24 00:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by karen v 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize sincerely and maybe ask them to hang out sometime where you can show them you can be a friendly, cool guy outside the school setting, a way to show them who you really are. Once your reputation starts to improve, girls will notice you. Start with a simple smile and nod in the hall in passing. If you get them back from the same girls day after day, work it up to a hi. After about a week make friendly light conversation about teachers or school, and keep working it up to eventual hang out in hallway sessions and study dates, etc. Good luck on your endeavor! I wish there were more boys like you in school...
2007-03-24 01:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by nancydeanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really tough question...
Maybe you should start with something simple, be more kind and sociable to others... maybe if you make more friends they'll eventually forgive you...
If you're shy around girls... start out with making some friends... then you'll get some girls to be your friend too...
Just try to show your good inside and make some friends... then everything else will fall into place... remember to be sincere!
2007-03-24 00:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by kalerei_fury 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all these things will not change suddenly...go talk to them and be friendly...mean people dnt get respect...so try to avoid such situations...it takes more time to earn erespect so..go school with determined mind tht now in future u will try ur best to help ur friends...u know earning a good friend is better than earning crores of ruppees
2007-03-24 00:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by sahil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be nice to everyone. No one likes a jerk.
Never mind the girls --- you are in school to learn. Start learning some manners.
2007-03-24 00:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by radar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you apologize to the people that you hurt maybe they will forgive you and girls???idk if some one was mean to everybody i wouldn't want to talk to them until i see that they changed.....all in all try to work hard to gain trust with every one maybe they'll start liking you
good luck
2007-03-24 00:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by flyest_f3mal3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. it depends on the level you hurt these ppl. if you just short of raped them verbally or something, its gonna take a while. i say just do nice things. say hello, hold a door open. about girls. i think its impossible to not be shy to an extent i would just straight up go talk to them. start with some small talk. ive laid down some mind blowing points at times and girls look at me like "wtf you on crack or something"
2007-03-24 00:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so, every boy is a little weird in those grades. People will probably have forgotten by now.
2007-03-24 00:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
instead of a big change i think u should change little by little. if u change rite away from a bad guy to a completely good guy they'll think ur crazy. after u change little by little ppl will realize who u really are
2007-03-24 00:43:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋