I was dressed the other afternoon when I needed some cash so I decided to use the ATM and get some cash quickly before continuing to drive around. As i am approaching the ATM wearing a wig, nails, a short skirt, stockings, blouse, bra, panties, makeup and 5"heels, I realize that one of my teachers from school is approaching the same ATM. I slowed down but got there first and as i had just inserted my card into the machine i was tapped on the shoulder and asked if these clothes were more comfortable than my own. It was awful how my teacher recognized me so quickly even and I was so nervous I entered the wrong password 3 times for my ATM card and it said that I had to go inside to retrieve it. So I had to go inside all dressed at one of my local banks to get my card back. This got worse when my former teacher was waiting for me outside so she could take pictures. That was ok until she took a picture of me as I tripped and showed her I was wearing pink panties. Why am I so unfortunate?
2007-03-23 17:17:28 · 17 answers · asked by sport1fun 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am a teacher.
If it were me, and I saw one of my students doing something like that, I would honestly hide and pretend that it didn't happen. Then I would never, ever tell anybody. The secret would go to my grave with me.
Or, I would wait until he clearly recognized me, and saw that I recognized him. I wouldn't be the first to greet. I think he should be the one to come out.
I am kind of protective of my student's privacy. There is a general ethic of don't ask, don't tell.
You aren't unfortunate though. That teacher was cool with it.
I have seen students do some very unusual stuff, but just don't make a big deal about it.
2007-03-23 17:23:37 · answer #1 · answered by poweranni 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Everyone has insecurities, and it sucks being called out on them. Unfortunately, I think your nerves got the best of you. The only tip I can give you to reduce anxiety is to think ahead about possible situations that may arise when you cross-dress, and then go through possible scenarios. At least this may reduce your anxiety to the point that maybe next time you will remember your pin, and not trip over your feet. (I would also recommend 2inch heels instead).
On another hand, I think your teacher's reaction was disrespectful, insensitive and immature. and I will hold back on other possible comments & criticism I could make.
Just think of it as a bad day, and the upside, is that every other day in comparison will be a good day :-)
2007-03-23 17:39:01 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah Morgan-White 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use this experience to learn how to dress/make-up better next time! I had a bad drag experience where i felt very insecure in my look... Now I know what women go through some times... I don't do this any more... I might want to again some day for Halloween... I think it would be fun to just do my face/head for close-up pics just to have! This would be alot cheaper then the whole thing!
2007-03-23 17:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you messed up your nails.
5" heels are for hookers dear. I gotta say this sounds like one tacky outfit. Not trying to be cruel but uhm... it does not sound good.
http://www.metacafe.com/watch/154212/rudy_giuliani_in_drag/
Check out the length of Rudy Guliano's dress here and note his demur and lady like manner. Even Trump wants to kiss her. Certainly in a longer dress no one would see your "manties"!
You are not unfortunate, just plain silly! You were begging to be found out or you would not have taken so bold an action in public. Otherwise you would not have gone to the ATM until after your teacher had left. You wanted to flaunt and see if you could "pass". Sorry but I am just calling it like it is.
If you insist in such deviant behaviour, at least be smart about iit. But be prepared for the consequences. No one gets away with anything forever.
2007-03-23 17:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that does sound like an awkward situation. I wouldn't fret though, why do you care so much about what other people think? I mean, if you're going to cross dress, you really ought to exhume some more confidence in it. Don't be discouraged, people are always going to think what they think. I am not personally gay or a cross dresser, but I do identify with the awkward annoyances of odd looks.
2007-03-23 17:21:44 · answer #5 · answered by Friedrich Nietzsche 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that story is true than your teacher is beyond rude. She is in the wrong not you. You can wear anything you want! Sounds like you just need a little more confidence to pull it off. And don't let anyone make you feel that way ever again.
2007-03-23 17:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by Daisy Indigo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say you shouldn't cross dress if you don't want to be seen. But if you really took the time to get all dressed up then I would think you would be proud of it and not embarrased.
2007-03-23 17:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by Pamela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you expect a serious answer to this question? Why you're so unfortunate? Don't cross dress. That cancels out all chances of further embarrassment. If you feel the need to do this, then you should be prepared to accept all consequences of your actions.
2007-03-23 17:20:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
i've got confidence it rather is going to help a lot including your leg hair. My pal is a CD and he wears 2 pair at a time. One pair of standard nylons to "capture" the leg hair and then the heavier stockings to conceal the silhoutette of dark hair. If he did not placed on that first pair of nylons, his leg hair, nevertheless ordinarily hid and coated with the heavy denier leggings, his leg hair might poke by using on occassion. that's my 2 cents. examine and answer mine please
2016-10-19 11:51:32 · answer #9 · answered by shakita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only unfortunate, but stupid, a poor writer and a bad lier. Don't quit your cross dressing day job.
2007-03-23 17:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by K G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋