my little sis is in 7th grade and she it totally flat chested. she has a small frame so its no big deal really, but she is so self concious about it. she says that all of her friends have 'something' and they sometimes tease her. she asked me for advice about it but i wasent sure what to tell her and i felt bad that she came to her big sis for advice and i couldent give her a good answer. does anybody have any advice for her??
2007-03-23 16:46:24 · 16 answers · asked by pointegurlie7706 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know it's hard to answer. my little sis was the same, flat chested untill about 2 years ago (she is now 18). I just told her to ignore what they said. I know that it can hurt, I went through the same thing. I didnt let them see me get upset. Try big things come in small packages and one day she'll be thankful she took so long to grow. Either that or a bra...
2007-03-23 17:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by Heidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she is still young and will grow more. Having a smaller chest isn't so bad, specially when you get older you wont have to worry about gravity pulling you down. This could be an an awkward phase to go through but tell her to be confident and not worry so much what her friends have, she's still beautiful. A lot of beautiful women are small on top, models, athletes. ect.
2007-03-23 17:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by crazydazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to watch America's Next Top Model! Most of the winners have no chest at all.
I wish I could give you a real answer, i have a little sister too and I always want to do right by her... but that's tough. The only thing you could do is tell her everyone matures differently, she'll just have to be patient. Tell her when she finally gets 'something' it will be better than everyone elses!!!
2007-03-23 16:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, tell her that getting a chest happens when you get older, and that it happens naturally. Tell her that not having a chest is nothing to worry about as a 7th grader, because 7th graders shouldn't have to worry about anything. Tell her that it's really okay not to have a chest yet, because she doesn't need to grow up too fast. And most importantly, tell her that all that information is TRUE because you went though 7th grade, and know how things are.
2007-03-23 16:55:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 09:59:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in seventh grade and there is lots of situations like this, my friends that are girls compare their boobs all the time. But there is this one girl that is really really big but she cant get a long relationship because the guys like her only because of her boobs, and if she is pretty looking it really doesnt matter.
2007-03-23 16:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well id say some thing like 'dont even worry about those girls, yeah they may have some thing but its not like thats really going to help them with any hting in life exept for a couple of idiot guys who are looking for the wrong thing in a girl. you have a great personality and thats better than any thing those other girls have'.
2007-03-23 16:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, her friends might have them, and the guys may be more attracted to them, but they are attracted to the breast and not the girl. Let her know that breast should not make her, she should make her. If there are boys liking her for her now, then she knows that its not just because of her breast. Breast doesnt do anything, but make a boy drool over you more, which leads to disrespect from them and possibly sexual harrasment.
2007-03-23 16:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by chocolate_thunder_in_dallas 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to worry.. people develop at different stages.. tell her that if her friends make fun of her then its time to get new friends..
Tell her that often late bloomers often bloom the brightest...
2007-03-23 16:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to worry about things that are not under her control and just be the best person she can be.
2007-03-23 16:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by sixpacabs139 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋