My friend (gal) and I grown up each other. We know each other for the past 20 years. When my parents and her parents newly wedded they met each other and they are friends till now. Infact I was in their house more than my house and my friend was also like that. We played together, studied together, roamed together. It was a good relationship between us. Recently one of my friend's friend (gal again) said that my frnd is fallen in love with me. I laughed and went and told to my friend.When I said this she looked up to me and said "Yes". I didnt know how to react. We didnt speak for two days. Our parents made us to talk again. when we started to speak she again said she is in love with me. First I shouted at her. Later when she went to her village in the vacations. Each min was an hour for me and I was waiting for her return. When she returned we spoke each for hours and I took her to shopping the next day and spent the half day. Now even I m in love with her and proposed her. I dont want to leave her. I m worried about my parents. I got a green signal from her parents as even they did love marriage. I dont want to break my parents friendship and at the same time I dont want to leave her.
2007-03-23 16:17:44 · 11 answers · asked by Arun k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wow, sounds like a tough situation. I know you're trying to make everybody happy and keep a good relationship with your parents. I think if you and your girlfriend are in love and feel good about being married, do it! You have known this girl for a long time, so you know what she is like. But, I would slow things down a bit and think of her in terms of how she will be a good wife and mother to your children. Does she have good work habits, and for that matter, do you? Is she good with managing money? Does she do things for others or does she think of herself first? Think of her in the way that she will be acting when she is married. Being married is about more than just being in love. Your marriage is for you. Marriage is wonderful and will make you as happy as you've ever been. If she's a hard worker and has the same values as you do, marry her!
Good luck.
2007-03-23 16:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Rich K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worrying man? Good friends make good pairs.
If you both are married it is good for all.
You and your friend first sit down and talk freely. Decide whether you both are really interested in each other? If both of you say 'Yes'. Call the parents (you and your friend) this Sunday for a tea party; sit down and tell them frankly that you both have been thick friends for such a long time and know each other very well. Now, that you also want to become life partners. Tell, them why you both made this decision.
Doubt worry man, everything will be positive.
All the best! Advance wishes for your marriage.
2007-03-24 00:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid you were or are raised in a culture that isn't like us in America so we really can't see your question. I don't understand why you would break your parents friendship when her parents are all for the two of you. I think you need to spend some time as a couple instead of friends for a while before you plan a wedding.â¥â¥
2007-03-23 23:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by kattsmeow 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
itz good that u love each other. as u r family know each other, i don't think u r parents will oppose. but first tell u r mom the whole thing and proceed. all the best.
2007-03-24 01:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by dvkini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why ur worry dear trust on God if ur love is true then surely everything will be alrite so keep patience n wait for the time to come
ALL THE BEST
2007-03-24 05:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by sundeep2323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what your question is, but it sounds like you two are hitting it off well.
Date each other for a while and see how it goes.
2007-03-23 23:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk to ur parent and try to convince them
2007-03-24 01:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by handsom_from_pune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comeon.go ahead break the news to ur mom.i don't think they will oppose.GOOD LUCK .
2007-03-24 03:15:18 · answer #8 · answered by cutie_hr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would this break your parents friendship? You'd think they'd be overjoyed....go for it :)
2007-03-23 23:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU DO'NT WANT TO LEAVE HER THEN DO'NT.
AND IF YOU WANT THAT YOUR PARENT'S FRIENDSHIP SHOULD'NT BREAK THEN LEAVE HER.
JUST DO ONE THING.
WHATEVER HAPPENS YOU SHOULD'NT LEAVE HER.
2007-03-24 00:09:49 · answer #10 · answered by rat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋