Question for Indian males ONLY!?

Question

Suppose a white Hindu woman wanted to marry an indian man and be accepted into his family. She does not have old money in the family, but has upcoming businesses of her own and is in college to become a dentist. She cooks indian food, speaks hindi, and is a very good hindu, Would she have a chance? Would his family accept her?

Thanks for the answers. I don't mind girls answering, I was mainly stressing INDIAN because I don't think any other race would understand my question. There would be no marrying without the parents' blessing, that's for sure. But for the mere reason of white skin is kind of harsh when everything else is a positive, dont you think?

Answer 1

If you have so many good things coming up for you , why do you want to get married at all? If you have to,let your Indian man adapt according to your needs. Duty of a husband is to ensure that his wife doesn't suffer . But problem is that they have to be reminded of that too often. Marry on your own terms and show respect to his family. That is all ! There are good and bad people all around. So make sure whether He and his family deserves you or not. If family is educated , it will value your attributes and nature , and money would be the last thing on their minds. Good Luck!

Answer 2

Depends on the family really. They are all different. Some very old hindu families might not because they would want to keep it in the race I guess I don't know how to put it in words while some modern Indian families might not even care... Also it depends on the guy too. I mean he is the one marrying. If he lets his family boss him around or say no I want to marry her and does it. All the Indian families I know personally would not care.

Answer 3

a white / black Hindu or any community woman / or man can marry any indian man/ women and be accepted into his/her family as per the social nad personel level . She /he does not have to bother about the old or new money in the family, or upcoming businesses of and or the college to become a dentist. or the cooking knoledge of indian or forign food, or langauge , or community , If they realy keen they should not worry about the socity or the family . they should think ,plan and to keep the step, towards their goal so that it should not harm to the socity .

Answer 4

i dont need to be a male to answer this, being indian i know the family wont accept. of course you can still get married against the parents wishes. and keep in mind indians want money!

Answer 5

Sorry I am answering but i can't stop my self.
Your future is bright get married , every thing will be ok.
In two to three years she will be the dentist. He need not to have any ones money, just for few years you both have to struggle.
Trust in him and your self, as trust should be like the feeling of a one year old baby when you throw him in the air, he laughs because he knows you will catch him.
and above all
So have confidence, trust others and never loose hope.
Best of luck********************

Answer 6

First of all, let me inform you that I am not a male!But from what I have observed, Initially there will be stiff resistance from Orthodox families. But based on your demeanour and behaviour , you will be able to swing it around. Your mother in law should accept you . Since you are white- skinned, you are easily accepted.

Answer 7

dear friend , this is a complicated qs , mens are not only looking for theire spouse mony , now a days indian mens are more leberal than old days , sure now they have chance of selecting thiire life partner and most indian famillys are accepting this view, generally mens are looking for some qualities frome theire life partner including ,how she is caring him, today indians generally mens are in high end stress because of theire carrer,so naturally they are expecting a caring wife ,and mostly mens will never tought abt mony that she bring from her home , yes including me , we are expecting a girl who can care me , can add some meaning to our life ,abilty to mingle with the sittuation that we are facing ,how she is raising children ,looking after everybody in his familly etc.

skin colour is dosnt matter, all mens like iswarya rai , but 99%dont expecting her as his better part why?. mens are allways thinking practicaly thats why. he will find some traits in her partner looking good , it may be how she smile, how she walk , how sweet her talking like some thing he like,

and off corse iam expecting my better part shuld be able handle sittuation with me in highs and lows of my life , we are not expecting a slave but we are expecting a GUARDIAN in our personal life

Answer 8

definitly can be accepted . marraige will not depends on the skin . asspecailly Indians prefer good nature and behaviour. thats all colour doesnt matter .have nice future. find right person get marry.

Answer 9

she will get a vey good husband and family. her life will be full of joys as far as family matter is concerned. i'm interested in knowing what kind of business she is doing along with studying dentistry? any way all the best.

Answer 10

If she's a nice lady, and knows how to treat the family with respect, she would be accepted by the family. Irrespective of her financial status, color, career orientation, etc.

All the best...

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