we dont do any things together at all ....
they do things that I dont enjoy at all...
and when they do things that i like, they simply either tell me at the last moment or dont tell me at all .....
i think they are just acquaintances, because the "hanging out" part is completely gone.... for like months? even though we live together!
i dont know... i am sad
2007-03-23 15:59:07 · 11 answers · asked by rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how do I make new friends?
I wanna make friends who are into clubbing and all...
where do i meet such people? at clubs, right? but i cant go to a club by myself...
2007-03-23 16:03:42 · update #1
Sound like some friends who need some spicing up to me.
They need you to teach them how to have fun and get to know people. I've spent years trying to learn how to do this and I've had some success. One things to keep in mind is that when you are friendly to others, chances are they will have a social wall. They might even envy you.
The best teachings on how to befriend people and how to help them liven up is from the LDS church. I know these teachings are inspired and I feel absolutly wonderful when I study and try to live them. I truly feel God has inspired the LDS prophets to teach us what he wants; you'll have to check it out. mormon.org
Good talkin to ya, take care
2007-03-23 16:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by Rich K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find new friends who have the same interests as you and things in common with you. You're bored with them and they may be with you. New friends you enjoy being with will make you very happy--not sad. Make new friends and keep the old. You can still have an acquaintance relationship with them, but branch out socially.
2007-03-23 23:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Helen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've just grown apart from them. That happend when me and my friend moved in together. We use to be inseperable. Then when we moved in, it all changed. He turned into a jerk and started lying about stuff. It's okay to be sad cause you guys were at a time good friends. Move on and just remember the good times.
2007-03-23 23:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by marie3681 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd get involved with some groups and try to find some more friends. they are not truly your friends if you can't trust them at least a little. Also if they can't respect you, they should definitely not be your friends. you can live together and not be friends. you can be acquaintances instead.
2007-03-23 23:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a stroll around a park and find someone there. Don't be sad because you'll be happy once you find new friends.
2007-03-23 23:05:36 · answer #5 · answered by Saru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to break away from those "friends" & start looking for other people to hang out with.
2007-03-23 23:02:30 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be sad, you are just growing apart, it happens to the best of us. It is really ok, just don't hate them because your not BEST FRIENDS anymore, love them because you have them in your life at all.
2007-03-23 23:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and make some new friends, friends who are FUN
2007-03-23 23:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by Lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry - thats pretty rough.... hang in there. you need to talk to someone im here :)
2007-03-23 23:02:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new friends
2007-03-23 23:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋