OK ladies, you spend months....lets say 5 months dating a guy, this guy is awesome! He is 90% of what you're looking for in a man!....And the big day or night comes.......it's time to go to the next level and you do it! Only one thing...he is not very big, lets say 5in and he don't last very long.3min..What do you do? Is it a big deal to you or is the fact that he is such a awesome guy makes up for his short comings???????????
2007-03-23 15:58:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
despite what women say sex makes up 90% of a relationship and when thats not there, theres not much more to work with. so i suggest makeing sex about your partners pleasure. men who have that problem need to work on forplay and making your woman *** with out intercourse then once you get ready for actual pentatration then she can *** more easily and you dont have to deal with the aggrivation of her getting pissed because you came before she got off.
2007-03-23 16:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well Thom, sex isn't everything but it's a big chunk of a relationship.
Work on intimacy, focusing on the girl (if you're a 3-min man, little satisfaction in it for her). Make sure she comes (because that's what it's all about baby... that lovely orgasm!)
If you wanna last longer, when you masturbate, before coming, stop yourself... that way, you'll work your length to a higher duration because your PC muscles will strengthen.
Cock rings are good too... they hold off the urge to come for a while because 100% of the blood isn't flowing to the penis.
And finally, if you feel like you're about to explode, pull out of her, please her until your urge goes away and go back in for another dive... your brain will be diverted from the feelings of orgasm and you'll still be hard. Repeat that a few times and at least sex will last about 15 minutes rather than three.
Good luck!
2007-03-23 20:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by can_you_accept_who_i_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not always the size that matters. If she is really into you then it should not matter! There is always for play too. If you are that worried about your size then try enziet (sp?) you know with that Bob guy on the commercials. And if she doesn't want you because you don't have a donkey dick then let her go her way!
2007-03-23 16:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's called justice. Poetic. You let him use that little Vienna sausage on you and you were expecting a wild time.
Now your count meter increases by 1. Add another mile. What a waste.
2007-03-23 16:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what the quality was like. it could last ten seconds and still be the best ten seconds you've ever had in bed. So that factors in........but remember that sex isn't everything. If your pleasured in bed and so is he than that should be enough. If you truly love him and he's the one for you than everything will come together and be wonderful. the sex, the conversation, the flirting. All of it.
2007-03-23 16:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is pretty tough. I would probably get passed it. Heck if he sucks that much buy yourself some toys. If he is that awesome then dont let him get away. You cant find many guys like that anymore.
2007-03-23 16:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lexi's mommy had twins! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it again. He may have been to nervous to last very long since it was his first time with you and size won't matter if you teach him what you like and how to use it the way you want him to.
2007-03-23 17:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by Trisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes sex in good is intimacy. If there's a great connection and deep love between two people, the sex is great no matter the size and duration.
2007-03-23 16:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by PhantomRN 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Is that all that matters to you? How selfish. You'll make a great wife someday....Maybe he couldn't get completely hard with you...
2007-03-23 16:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
oh no....the dreaded teenie weenie.....I don't know what to say.......yikes......gosh, sex isn't everything, but it is a LOT....I don't want to seem shallow, but........there are ways, how does everything else work out????????
2007-03-23 16:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋