A friend and me are in a fight.. I think we both want to get back together but how do i confront her without making her angrier at me.. We dont want WW3 here I want to tell here what i think but i am afraid she will get angrier HELP
2007-03-23 15:53:18 · 10 answers · asked by Cat Lover 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would send her a nice note in the mail. No return address so she will open it. Say something like: I know we are not speaking but I want you to know that I miss your friendship. Can we talk sometime? Julie
Don't place any blame for anything and don't make any demands. Just ask if you can talk with her sometime. Then wait. Don't ask if she got your letter or anything. It make take a few weeks for her to warm up to you again. Just wait it out.
2007-03-23 16:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anger only lasts for a time, so maybe it's still a little too soon for you to approach her and say what's on your mind!
If time does not resolve her anger, then she just isn't the type of friend you need to have in your life. I am curious to know who instigated this fight, was it your fault or hers. If she was the instigator then tell her what's on your mind despite how she feels she will get over it, sometime. If you were the instigator, then give her the time she needs and if she really was a good friend and you value her friendship and what the both of you had, I say leave it alone. Not everything is worth discussing and you must be able to pick your battles, so you should weigh the pros and the cons and ask yourself is telling her what's on my mind worth losing my friendship over?
2007-03-23 23:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if you both can agree to disagree. Let her know you are still bothered by the fight and ask when you both can sit down and discuss it without getting angry all over again. Even the best of friends will get into fights occasionally. It is how you both handle the friction that will help keep a good friendship going strong. Ask yourself if the need to tell her what you think is worth risking a friendship. If you two are fighting, I believe she already knows what you think anyway.
2007-03-23 23:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Katykins 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk to her one on one and tell her your true feelings without her freaking out on you then she's not a good friend to start with. You should be able to tell a friend anything in confidence. Leave a message on her cell phone or email her to make the first step. Say I don't know how it got like this but I want to try and make things right. Spill your guts and say what is really on your mind and if it doesn't work she isn't worth being friends with.
2007-03-23 22:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person is mad you should stay away from the . After a little while(usualy 15 minutes) do something nice for them, and while your doing it , ask them.
2007-03-23 22:58:50 · answer #5 · answered by butt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fairly dependent on what you 2 are fighting about. If it's about who ate the last of the ice cream...go buy more. If you messed up, apologize, if they messed up, forgive.
2007-03-23 22:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by malthisar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give her some space and time to cool down. People think totally different once they have had time to chill.
2007-03-23 22:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by Dereck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
constructive criticism is the way to do it
2007-03-23 22:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her cool down then go talk to her
2007-03-23 22:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by Lee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make some really good jokes to cheer her up.....
2007-03-23 23:03:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋