So many women stab you in the back and they also cheat !
2007-03-23 15:41:42 · 17 answers · asked by TNT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
as far as looking in the wrong places? BS !!! I have looked in ALL the places! and majority of you ladies are all the same.
2007-03-23 15:46:02 · update #1
Yeah - some guy walking around with a chip on his shoulder bitching and moaning about how women are cheaters... I can see where an honest woman who has her act together would be dying to go out with you!
There are liars and cheaters that are both men and women - you need an attitude adjustment if you are to ever meet the kind of woman who can offer you an honest and pure relationship.
2007-03-23 15:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Goddess 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh honey, the answer to your question is rather easy. It's impossible to find anyone decent these days. It's like a parking lot. All the good spaces are taken and the rest of them are handicapped.
I'm sorry I had to make light of this, but it's more of a problem than you realize, and I truly mean for both sexes. You come off as old fashioned. Not a bad thing...for those of us that are married, committed and not looking, BUT it's because we also sought out the same things you are looking for and we were lucky to find them. This isn't about where to find them. this has more to do with trying too hard to find them. When you have that mindset, it's highly unlikely you are going to find the woman of your dreams. Those kind of woman pass you by in life. It could be the woman checking out your groceries at the store. The lady you never give a second thought about behind the register when you are paying for gas. It's what I call "normal people". And the reason I say this, is because if they can muster up pleasant conversation and a few smiles at a job they undoubtedly despise, then they are willing to go the extra mile in other aspects of their lives in order to make you happy. The women you come across in bars or online, even at social gatherings all have hidden agendas sweetie. If you aren't measuring up to their 'ideal', then you are pretty much out of gas and they'll talk to you, even use you just long enough until someone better comes along. In a sense it's the "mr. right now" syndrom.
My best advice to you, would be to stop looking and start enjoying life. When you find that happiness from within, it shines through to the outside and people will be drawn to you. It says something about a person when others look at them and see a completely happy and well rounded individual who hasn't let past hurts jade him.
Wish you well honey, and rest assured, when you are least expecting it....you are going to be in love.....and you won't even be able to explain how it happened. that's what is so great about it.
Don't give up....just take a break from your quest.
2007-03-23 23:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that we are attracted to people or draw the same kinds of people as our ex's are. Maybe if you find out what is attracting you to these kinds of women or these women to you, then you can break that cycle and find one that will be more reliable and faithful. Maybe you're a magnet for this kind of person, or you can't tell beforehand with any potential warning signs.
Also if you mistreat them or abuse them even accidentally, not saying that you in particular are, but that will lower their opinion of you in their eyes and they will be more tempted to get even, or get what they want elsewhere.
Cheating is so rampant these days with both men and women, and I don't know why. I'm sorry this happened to you.
A woman who saves herself for her husband, even if she's been married before and he's divorced her or passed away, , believes in dating one man at a time to see if the first date should become something more, or is religious, may be less likely to cheat.
I think there's books out there on how to cheat-proof your relationships, maybe something to look into?
2007-03-23 23:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by Missy A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you stop looking so hard one will come along.It does have to do with the places you look,as well as the type of lady you find in those places.Some ladies are backstabbers,but the majority of them are not.There's plenty of nice,decent,and trust worthy lady out there.You have to make up your mind not to settle for just a pretty face,When there is so much more to them.Be selective because when a decent,trust worthy lady is looking for a decent,trust worthy guy,they are selective about who he his.They take the time to get to know him as a person,and not just for what he looks like.
2007-03-23 23:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not many women these days have any respect for themselves, any kind of morals, or a respect for marriage. Thanks to the feminist movement, women think they are the better sex and when they get told the truth, they freak out and demand respect from those they treated like crap. Don't go to a bar to find your future Mrs...Women are catty whores, what can I say? There are a few nice girls in the world, I do hope you find one of them.
2007-03-23 23:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because some women, just like men have a problem with commitment and growing up, and learning what life and reality are all about. Take it from me, I'm dealing with the same issue. I'm just the mature one in the relationship I'm in!
2007-03-23 22:48:16 · answer #6 · answered by melissamiller_79 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are just bitter from bad experiences. There are many good women out there searching for good men. You just need to keep looking. Just remember both genders have users and abusers.
2007-03-23 22:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Because you are looking in the WRONG places Mr.
2007-03-23 22:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
so many men stab you in the back too and many married men cheats really its both
2007-03-23 22:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Okey, so whats your point?
I would suggest start by being honest with yourself and move forward from there!
Women need to also understand that it takes two to play and if you play with wrong person then your hurting everyone including themselves!
2007-03-23 22:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋