hey i just found out that this guy i wanted to ask out, likes me! he told my friend that he liked me!!! i was excited for a second then i got worried. what if we hated eachother if we dated! wat if he said no he doesnt like me all of the sudden? wat do i do? i cant kiss and i am afraid of wat he would treat me like! the real thing is that he SAID maybe he will go out and i wasnt expecting that! so i dont know wat to do!!!! when i return to school wat should my first reaction be?
2007-03-23 15:27:22 · 10 answers · asked by curious_grl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Keep it relaxed, don't freak out-guys hate that. Kissing is really easy to learn, just follow his lead. Tell your friend to tell him that you would be okay with going out. Let him ask you and just have fun. and remember RELAX!
2007-03-23 15:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by MKD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well wave him over to you and say Hi..! Make some small talk and see if you can meet him at lunch time. Don't expect any dramatic talk at lunch.. just talk about classes and stuff. Same thing the next day. Try to meet up with him around the school and talk for a few minutes. See if he goes to a church nearby, has a hobby, has brothers and sisters and which one is his favorite. Chat him up about everything from pets to weather and see if you like him more or less. Music is a good chat topic to talk about on the phone so at that point you could give him your phone and tell him a good time to call if he feels like talking about music. See how that goes. Limit your phone time too... better to keep something for the next time you talk. Maybe a daytime date would be a good first date. Tell him you have an early curfew for now and that you would like to go to xyz with him if you could be home early. the way things are today.. maybe it would be safer to set up a group date. A mom could drop off the girls and pick them up so nobody is left alone (victim). Relax and enjoy the fact that somebody is interested in you, even if its a shakey interest.. :) Rome wasn't built in one day.. Good Luck.
2007-03-23 15:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by ricketyoldbat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat him with the same respect you should others.
He must have felt that you shared some interest too if shared with his friend the attraction he feels.
Stop panicking over stuff that has not happened yet.
Be a good friend and if it proceeds from there - be thankful for the opportunity if this is the guy you want.
2007-03-23 15:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Marsha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool down a bit there...just try going out with him. Just take it a bit at a time. Don't worry about anything. The most important thing is...u guys like each other. Than go for it!!
2007-03-23 15:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing to do is to stay calm, the terrorists aren't coming to your school! He will approach you and make the first move if and when he is ready to, please don't go acting desperate!
2007-03-23 15:33:03 · answer #5 · answered by spoiltrini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with him everything will fall into place.
2007-03-23 15:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont know until you two go out, see what happens
2007-03-23 15:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your reaction should just be sincere
and there are certain risks you gotta take in life
2007-03-23 15:32:22 · answer #8 · answered by Lil_B4ByLV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y don't you stop with the what ifs! You'll never know unless you try. Keep it simple.
2007-03-23 15:38:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your first reaction should be to say, hi.
2007-03-23 15:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋