Miserable..?

Question

I hate feeling this way, im pregnant with my second child, and im tired all the time and completely B****Y all the time.. I dont mean to be but i just am. Its like my boyfriend has changed since i got pregnant i feel like i do everything and sometimes I just cant stand it so i freak out and just wanna be alone... lately i just dont wanna be touched, i wanna be left alone so i can rest and relax... im in my first trimester, and i hate being this way... what to do????

Answer 1

try going and doing things you like to do alone like shopping ro seeing a movie or walk in the park things like that and just try to talk to him and when ur in a good mood try to be as nice as possible to him lol women go threw this and it sucks cause men don't understand and when you feel like ur getting mad go lay down or talk a bath and just tell him you need space so then you won't snap at him thats the best advice i could give ya!
hopefully he understands but then again they're men lol
good luck

Answer 2

Gosh I feel you, I am in my second trimestor and I am the same with my husband I am makign his life hell with my nagging, its like PMS ten fold when Im not angry I cry my eyes out like a little child, I know the feeling too about wanting to be touched but wanting to be alone.. You have to try to control it a bit though because the poor partners even though they know your pregnant and its hormones being bitchy does affect them big time, most likely he does do work, but because your so hormonal it jsut seems like he doesn't I know that my case, I cook all the time and the other night I was feeling I do everything, but then he also does other things to make up for not cooking like go to th estore at 4 am when I have a juice craving etc

Dont worry it will pass, you jsut have to learn how to deal with it and try to not let it affect he world around you

Im so sorry, I was liek this today I balle dmy eyes out in the shopping center, on the bus then came home and screamed at my husband half an hour later I asked him to hug me and hold me tight.. I feel like I have turned into a complete nut, and I am sure he does too

Answer 3

i dunno i still haven't found a solution and i am 36 weeks this is also my second pregnancy actually i could have written every word of this its my life lol anyways i sometimes do freak out and leave for a bit it seems to help but i'd rather be home with my son anyways so it doesn't last for longer then like 1/2 an hour i find the time when i was not frusterated is when i have someone else to be more annoyed with lol you could try this stratagy if you come up with anything in the next 4 weeks let me know if not then i guess it'll be over with anyways

Answer 4

What you should do is go out on a date with your girlfriends, enjoy the sun beating on you. smell some flowers, think of someplace beautiful. And When you hang out with your friends, dont think negatively. Think about being a mommy number 2. And how great its gonna feel once he/she is in your arms after birth.And also just how much you love your boyfriend. Positive things will come around. You just have to be a lil patient is all. Go soak your feet. Relax

Answer 5

I feel ya, I just gave birth to number 5 and I hated my husband during all of my pregnancies at one point or another. Sorry but you just got to ride it out. Try not to be to harsh cause youll just push him away and its really hard to repair the damage done by our bitchiness

Answer 6

Just be patient and ask your boyfriend to be patient with you...it's your hormones and once you start your second trimester you should start feeling better. If not then talk to your doctor about it.

Answer 7

Sounds like your hormones are messing with you, and you also sound a little bit depressed. See your doctor and explain your moods, they may have some good suggestions or solutions. Good luck and hang in there.

Answer 8

Eat lots of chocolate.. lol.. it's worked for me 3 times!!!

Answer 9

eat pineapple..trust me it works!