I truly beleive there are good marraiges left and that couples are faithful and dont cheat for those of you married 20 years or more, what are wonderful ways you keep the passion and romance alive (not just that way) and how have you weathered through the storms and tempests of life? What advice to you have for couples married 15 years or less? Has your faith helped you though the years?
2007-03-23 15:20:04 · 6 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A few hints- You are not always right.
There is more than one way to do something.
Be considerate, compassionate & kind.
Don't use sex as leverage.
Faith hasn't helped in my case. 32 years now.
2007-03-23 15:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember that the 2 of you are a team when times get rough it is us against all others. Don't give up easily. Make time to date each other get a sitter and go out to dinner, for a drive, bowling whatever make time to be alone with out the kids like before you were married. If money is tight you can do free stuff or just go out for fast food. My parents would sit in the kitchen every Friday night to discuss where the money was going, what was going on for the weekend and all the stuff that had happened when dad wasn't home. If you remain friends with your spouse you will be less likely to look for it elsewhere.
2007-03-23 15:31:13 · answer #2 · answered by bubbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you don't have to be married 20 plus years to know what it takes. If your with the right person and you share in everything then your marriage will naturally take off in the right direction. You have to be committed to each other and have to trust . Share in the house work, cooking, paying the bills, When you learn who your spouse is and know their dreams and passions the rest will just work itself out. When you truly love them you'll never mind if you give more .
2007-03-23 15:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by Countrygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go naked around the house. Masturbate each other. Watch a few XXX movies. Try special tricks with different naked positions. Learn different massage techniques. Look at naked pictures of each other. Talk sexy on the phone. Go naked in the car. Use toys to enhance your sex play. Learn how to use different delay techniques and see how long you both can keep on the edge of a climax and not go over. Use oils and cremes and special GNC herbs to intensify your sensations. Take movies of each other and still pictures in sexy out door poses and look at them while you are apart Talk about sex on the phone with each other. Have phone sex with each other while at work. Be daring in public without underwear at the mall, for example and take pictures while exposing your self. Have naked sex in the hall way or living room or in the car or in the garage or in the back yard. Use vibrators and other rings and balls and clamps to keep the sexual tension high. Masturbate him in public and let him bring you off in a restaurant in front of others without them knowing it.
2007-03-23 15:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This sucks!
How about a little strange? You know that either you or your husband had to have had some kind of sweaty romp on the side.
2007-03-23 15:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Learn to forgive.
2007-03-23 15:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋