.... with really hairy arms its kind of distarcting in the upperarm its normal but in the lower arm you can hardly see her skin its really gross and it distracts me what should i do ps i sit next to her in every class
2007-03-23 15:14:54 · 25 answers · asked by love_angela_music_baby 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
she could shave the nastyiness off
2007-03-23 15:21:38 · update #1
get over it and stop looking at her arms if u dont like it, thers nothing she can do about, shaving would make it thicker and u could tell if she shaved, it would look abnormal. get over it and worry about more important things, if u really cant then tell the teacher and have the teacher move your seat.
2007-03-23 15:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by cudybug 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How long is it going to take until you are grossed out by some girl's eyebrows? Or some girl's raggedy fingernails? Get over yourself, for God's sake. The world is full of people who don't want to look like you, dress like you or be like you but they are perfectly good people with lots of little flaws and some big ones. If you are distracted by a hairy arm on a girl, then you must be some fine starchy clean cool awesome dude yourself whom everyone just marvels at for his perfect pleasing appearance! NOT.
2007-03-27 13:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay b*tch, shut up. You are very rude to this person. Let me tell you something, I have hairy arms, I do, I hate it. I was born with a lot of hair. I'm hispanic, it's not my fault. I REALLY wish I could shave it off, but my parents would kill me. Also, if I shave it it becomes thicker, much worse. I've heard people like you talk behind my back, it sucks, it kills my feelings. If you are in Gainseville, I will find you and kill you. Good day.
2007-03-25 23:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your question is mean at all. Did you know that some religious beliefs do not allow a woman/girl to shave. I am sure it is distracting. I would try to focus on something else positive in the room, and when you look at her, just be happy you don't have those hair arm pits and you get to shave. Smile inside and just think, she could have 3 eyeballs and that totally would freak you out!
2007-03-24 00:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Pay attention to class. Look the other way. It isn't her fault that her arms are like that. As long as she is clean it shouldn't matter to you. It would be worse if it was you don't you think. How would you feel about that situation. You need to learn to direct you mind in another direction. not just about you.
2007-03-23 22:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by littledueceb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Their isnt a whole you can do about it, she cant shave her arms because of you. Just try to ignore her and stop looking at her arms. She probably doesnt like them either,but when your born with lots of hair not much you can do about it.
2007-03-23 22:19:53 · answer #6 · answered by UnitedStatesofAlbania 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
UMMM... GROW UP. Im sure there is something annoying and not so attractive about you like maybe your attitude towards someone b/c they have hairy arms are you KIDDING me. HONEY there are ALOT more important things to spend your time stressing about
2007-03-23 22:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats being kind of selfish dont you think? she cant help that she has hairy arms. and she prob. dosent like it anymore than you and may feel very self-concience about it. i suggest you just accept her for who she is and try to get to know her. she might be a really good person and you dont even know it!
and if your thinking "why dosent she just shave?" maybe its a part of her religion or heritage or maybe her parents just wont let her. please consider just being nice to her and try not to talk about her because that just makes people think that its ok to talk about people like that.
2007-03-24 00:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can possibly explain the situation to your teachers and see if they'll allow you to move, but try not to let the girl know. For some people, something like that is embarrasing to them and to know that someone is really distracted by them can hurt their feelings.
2007-03-23 22:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know what you mean. I can understand that it is mean to notice those things but even me, with my gross pimply face, still gets grossed out by other people's um ... visually unappealing aspects. Unfortunately you can't do much except tough it out. Try to be her friend since I noticed that it's easier to live with a friend's unapealing physical quality than with someone's that you don't know.
2007-03-24 06:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by JK Sy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋