my friend me fat and i felt like crying.everyone is outa control and my b-day party is next week and i am scared this is the future party of mine.How do i help my friend when she won't listen.ppl are stronger than me so i can't hit them.i am always left out like me.i wanta cry and it's unfair.why was i invited?and how can my friend calm ppl down?and i need answers now!!!please help!
2007-03-23 15:09:26 · 12 answers · asked by Jibjab 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hi... happy b-day party and I'm so sorry about that dear but don't be sad....you can't control them but you can control your self, right?... so if you don't like what they say or do , you just need to tell them that and leave..and it's not weakness trust me it's the right thing to do... when they wake up and get back to their minds they will know that you are right to leave and they were bad and mean to you
I'm you girl in what you feel....things like this used to happen to me and i just used to let them do what they want and i just leave at the end some of them told me that i was right to do that... if they don't appreciate you then they don't deceive you, you seem so sensitive and amazing girl...please don't be sad
Have a nice evening
2007-03-23 15:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are there any supervision there? If not, and you really want the party to end, then call the police. If there is underage drinking, they will make everyone go home. If you are having a bad time and feel like crying, then call and get a ride home. Have your parents pick you up and let them break up the party. Keep your party simple and only invite your close friends. Make sure they know you do not want anyone else to come. Good luck.
2007-03-23 15:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by Shanna h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the party and don't invite the mean ones to yours next week. That is definitly not a friend if they called you fat in front of people.
2007-03-23 15:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well alot of partys are wild because that the whole reason why they come. Don't let anyone bring you down, You can't listen to everyone. If you know your cute don't let them hater get in the way. She can tell them hey don't be to loud my neighbor will call the police so yall come down or something...
2007-03-23 15:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by Giovanna R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pal had alittle too a lot to drink, noted as you a *****, and all people acts stunned? seems to me which you opened your self up for that by way of making the snide remark approximately her. If she's your pal, she's your pal...enable it bypass. you're performing as though she fooled around including your boyfriend. do not sweat the small stuff. good success.
2016-10-19 11:39:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First,Don't invite a friend like that to your party.Then invite people who you know that wil respect you.Then if some people are wild tell them to leave or use the"I'll call the cops" attitude.Then safe proof the house!
2007-03-23 15:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by ?¿Whatcha Doin'?¿ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go home if your not having fun and people are being mean. If you are worried about your future party, only invite people who arent going to act stupid.
2007-03-23 15:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't invite her to your birthday party, or else have your mom or an aunt there at all times. they will make sure things don't go crazy, and there's no name-calling. that's just plain mean. it also means that she feels bad about herself.
2007-03-23 15:18:52 · answer #8 · answered by bad guppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kind of fat too and tell them they need to keep it to their self or call them names and threatin them too I hope it helped
2007-03-23 15:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Courtney C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick up for yourself!! I aint talking about hit them but don't sit back and cry talk your $hit too girl!
2007-03-23 15:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by queenb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋