im not a homophobe, but it is awkward what should i do?
2007-03-23 14:52:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i mean my BEST friend*
2007-03-23 14:53:32 · update #1
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Onward, soldiers!
Thank you,
Common Sense
2007-03-23 18:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Common Sense 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes awkward it could be. But he is Your best friend. Be supportive. Be truthful. What I would do is put my arms around him. Give him a hug and tell him I love you like a bro. but thats as far as it goes.... he knows you are straight, he will understand.... he did take a big chance on coming out to you and will want to continue the friendship no matter what.... if thats what you want too.
2007-03-23 15:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by iszee4real 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you don't have the same feelings for him as he does for you. It doesn't have to be awkward. Maybe you could even offer to go "guy hunting" with your friend. It may be a little uncomfortable for you, but it will take the tension off your friendship, and it'll show your friend that you care for him, no matter what.
2007-03-23 15:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Above all, you said he is your best friend, so be his friend. Be honest with him. Let him know where you are and you won't hurt his feelings. In fact, it's kind of natural to crush on your best friend, in that situation.
2007-03-23 15:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is what they want me to say: ahhh, just cuddle with him and thank him for honoring you with such affection. Arrange some flowers for him and hold his hand as you asure him all is well. There, no thumbs downs, right?
2007-03-23 16:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that's not how you get down. you all are just friends and that's all you will ever be. now if he's still tryna push up on you then the frienship should come to an end.
2007-03-23 15:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by jdukenumber1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this person it's okay to feel the way they do. Tell them you are not homosexual, but you don't judge them. Tell them to be hardcore homo if they want! Support them! Friends do that! But set the line between heterosexuality and homosexuality straight between you two. Actually, go ahead and try it!
2007-03-23 14:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by Audrey V 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
oh wow....this is an iteresting situation. If you're not interested (question doesn't exactly make that clear), then just tell him that you're not interested/seeing so and so/whatever.
He should understand....just don't try to make it weird.
If you are interested....then don't forget to wear a condom!
2007-03-23 17:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you do not feel the same about him but you still want to be friends
2007-03-23 15:20:19 · answer #9 · answered by superwomen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that you are straight? If so. Just tell him 'no'. And if he doesn't stop then leave. You don't have to take any harassment because you are not gay and he is.
2007-03-23 15:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋