What can i do to stop from being overcome with pain?
2007-03-23 14:51:04 · 5 answers · asked by cluckymouthy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When I lost a loved one recently, I just kept busy doing things.
2007-03-31 06:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Gardner? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry Hon,
In this case, your pain has to be felt deep and resolved before it lessens. Notice I didn't say go away. Sure, walks, movies, music, and books will give you a small vacation from it, but you owe it to your grand-parent to get over it in a natural way. By understanding that love hurts when it's taken away. You'll be OK. Your pain is private and not something you can share, unless in 6 months it hasn't grown manageable smaller.
Now, for your teacher, since she hurt her ankle, make a card with her laying down on a couch and her foot in the air. Put a glass of red pop near and some popcorn too. Make it as corny as you can. Crayon is better than pencil or magic marker. Stick figures too. Keep it simple. She will adore it and you for being so thoughtful. It WILL make her smile and laugh.
2007-03-27 05:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about your grandma's passing away. Just know that she is in a better place and still will be with you in her memories. God is taking good care of her right now. Everytime you see the sun, she is smiling down on you. Now for your teacher, how terrible and painful, have your class to do a fun project for her like making a big get well card or write a poem just for her. Teachers like that stuff. As for you, keep your head up and maybe in memory of your grandma, plant her favorite flowers and when they come up, they will remind you of her. Take care.
2007-03-30 03:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by beaddiva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Express your self through art. Draw,listen to music, write music,dance, write poetry or any other piece that help. Another thing that will help is if you stop thinking of every thing as a bad situation. Life will get better . I know how u feel I felt the same when my mother died. But what helped me is asking myself what can I do to better my self and make people comfortable so when they do leave they'll be happy.
2007-03-30 11:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by Aila126 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop get off the computer and take a long walk all by you're self while on that walk look at things REALLY look at things try not to think just look at things it works if you do it long enough and you will be ok
2007-03-23 15:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by sentrysharpshooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋