Well let's just say that me && my [[x]] best friend got into a fight last monday on the phone and it was over something really stupid. She called me things that I couldn't imagine and said she NEVER wanted to see/talk to me EVER AGAIN. I tried calling her to explain but she never answers/hears my messages. I just feel like giving up but I just can't! I just can't not be her friend..I mean we've been through so much together and now it's like everything is gone..NOTHING MORE.. Everyday for me is miserable and I just feel like laying in my bed and crying..but I can't I have to be strong..but I can't..
What should I do about it? I need ALL the help I can get..
2007-03-23 14:41:28 · 8 answers · asked by AlYSSA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sit down with her alone and make sure she doesn't leave. Have a discussion about your relationship and tell her that her friendship's too important to lose because of a silly argument.
2007-03-23 14:46:33 · answer #1 · answered by Taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U know we gotta understand that our lives are so different from the movies things like this can take forever and not a few minutes like the movies do. Man what u just said in the last few sentences is what she needs to hear. No matter how mad someone gets they can't stay mad forever, they gotta give in sometime. Tell her how much she means to u as a friend in ur life or if she's like family tell her. I know it ain't easy but real friends fight for others and never give up. I hope everything works out. Reall it's our friends that make the best out of our lives cus they are always there.
2007-03-23 22:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Salima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes no matter how ready you are to explain, understand and make up, it won't work till your friend is ready to do the same. Write her a letter and tell her with clarity that you value her friendship and explain things. I'm sure there is more to this than meet the eye and reason for her anger. Be prepared to get on with life if there's no way to undo what's done. It's tough but suffice to say, you would learn that even with friendships -- people in our life can be like those who go through that revolving door. Some may return, some may not. Occupy yourself instead of letting this issue eat you up. Go take those long walks, go out with friends, watch a couple of movies -- go do what you love...and before you know it and if you are lucky -- she'll come back and ready to talk.
2007-03-23 21:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by kohuole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let the air settle --- send her a lot or a letter saying you are sorry for all the things you said if you were in the wrong say sorry it is a small word with a very big meaning and if she is any-why sensible she should contact you!
2007-03-23 21:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by sparky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 10 year old son just ate 4 pices of my 4mg nicotine gum. What should I do?
2007-03-23 21:44:00 · answer #5 · answered by HLR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's your sign When your mad you say things you don't mean and normally after a few days we relize we were wrong so give it some time and don't push so hard. She will come back around.....
2007-03-23 21:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 her in person she cant avoid u if ur standing in front of her... fix it and as i always say meet in the middle !!!
2007-03-23 21:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her in person
2007-03-23 21:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by queenb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋