Would you tell your spouse if after years of being married that you feel you made a mistake in marrying them??

Question

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Answer 1

You do that only if you are going to divorce them. If for any reason you intend to stay (you should not stay if you feel that strongly), remember that there is someone else's feelings at stake. Those are very strong words and once you utter them, you cannot take them back without wounding the other person. Do what makes you happy, because everyone deserves happiness. Just don't say it in the heat of an argument.

Answer 2

My wife did that after 30 years. Do him a big favor let him go so he can have a happy life. Be selfish and wait until hes 50 and let him know you had a couple of affairs too. Why no all he did was promise ot love you and be with you threw good and bad times. Maybe you should ask him. It could be him that made the mistake and he's just waiting until you die so he can piss on your grave. Then take the life insurance and find a real woman that will love him. Write me Ill tell you more on how It feels to be screwed over after giving them everything

Answer 3

Oh god no - KEEP LYING TO HIM. Whatever you do, don't tell him the truth. Then you'd have to face the conflict and confront an issue and grow a spine and stand up to something and deal with the consquences of your choices.

No, it's best to keep lying and not facing the truth and betraying his trust in you. That way when he finally does find out years from now the pain and rejection will be on a much larger scale. All the better for your drama filled life, princess.

Hey if you think *you* made a mistake, imagine how he feels about your sorry a*ss.

Answer 4

I did and it was the biggest mistake I ever made because once she was gone I realized it was a bigger mistake letting her go. The fact is you married this person for a reason. The reason may not seem the same but with work it could be. The grass isnt as green on the other side as you think. Could counselling help you?

80% of people who are unhappy and divorce are STILL UNHAPPY 5 years later.

50% of people who were unhappy and stay together with counselling are HAPPY 5 years later.

Check your options

Answer 5

Yes, if he made you a promise and never made good on that promise. I have been dealing with something for a while with my husband, and he asked me when we first got together if there was one thing I could change about him and I told him, and I keep finding out time and time again that he didn't take care of this problem, and I am beginning to think that I made a mistake, and told him so, I have given him 30 day's to resolve this problem, or I am done!!

Answer 6

there is a lot of anger in the answers that have been given to you.
Personally I would not tell my spouse this.
I believe that in any relationship, good or bad , there are way to many precious memories to feel that the relationship was a mistake.
It is only my opinion
best of luck

Answer 7

I'm struggling with the same question. I dont think calling it a mistake is accurate. At the time you married, something was right or you wouldn't have married. If you feel the relationship is dead, it's important to identify what has changed; what makes you think it was a mistake to marry?

Answer 8

Yes

Answer 9

Hi, sorry to meet under these circumstances, but it looks as though we are are in the same boat. I have yet to convey thoughts to her, but feel the same way. We share the children and nothing more. No dreams or desires, what a terrible way to live, when you want more in a relationship. Good luck I wish you the best.

Answer 10

Well this is a big jump. You half to act like it isn't working (the marrige) Don't tell out of no where it is a big shocker that way. But if he can feel the marrige breaking apart it won't be as hard telling him. after that you are free to say as much as you want.
:)