ok my bf brought a video camera to skool and i guess when i wasn't paying attention he video taped my ***!!
he is 13 gonna be 14 soon i am 12.
i found by this guy cuz on my way to my locker the guy was all like (my bf's name) had video taped my butt and that he was watching it in the guys restroom!What should i do?
2007-03-23 14:25:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I hate to be blunt...but lighten up. Honestly. No one likes a chick that's going to freak out about every little incident. This isn't even an incident. It's...nothing. Who cares if he recorded your butt? Anyone could record your butt throughout the day if they wanted to. Who the hell DOESN'T have a camera on their phones now-a-days?
It's just boys being boys. Guys like girls' butts, and they're having the fun that 13 year olds have. Please don't turn into one of these super-conservative chicks that sues her co-workers because she THINKS they may have looked at her chest.
If you want to do something, do something funny and clever. Record him doing something embarrassing. People will admire you more for that rather than being the "uptight girl that tells everything to the principle". Big mistake.
2007-03-23 14:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend obviously does not have any respect for you. He views you as a sex object which he feels free to share with other guys. If you really want to keep him as a boyfriend, then you should let him know that this is not acceptable behavior, make sure he knows that you are being serious. If you need help, get an adult to talk to him for you. If you let him get away with this, then he will only do it again and worse things also.
2007-03-24 04:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by ERIC W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Sammy, I would ignore boys who go to that level of maturity and I would also report him to the teacher or principle. Telling may prevent some other girl from suffering this embarrassment. I would also leave your boyfriend alone and tell him because of his poor behavior you don't want him around you. Good Luck.
2007-03-23 23:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by Georgia Preacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well i am 14 and boys are perverted at this age. and i know you can curse so curse him out. not so much that you break up (if you dont want to) just be like
"(bf name). why did you tape my as*. what the H-E-double hockey sticks! you pervert!" i call my guy friends perverts all the time. they take it as a joke, but they take it.
2007-03-24 00:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by iheart_boomer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the principal and demand he take that copy away
from your so-called boyfriend. Then tell the principal to give
it to HIS parents. Then don't even speak to this creep.
This kid is trying to be Mr. Big with the other boys but only
shows how stupid he is.
2007-03-23 22:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend did the same thing just we were at a party and he set the camera in front of him on the table across from me focused on my chest and I thought it was off, dump him, mine ended up cheating on me!
2007-03-24 02:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♫♪♫TAY-LUR♫♪♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with the guy and take the video from him and burn the video. Then tell your parents.
2007-03-24 01:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at least you know for sure that he's interested. Just make sure you have all the facts straight. It's possible that his friend was just trying to trick you.
2007-03-24 00:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Report the little pervert to the principal.
2007-03-23 21:32:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
well he is your boyfriend. And i don't know why he would video tape your but. I mean like i know why but seriusoly, that justs stupid. Juts tell him not to do it anymore, you don't like it.
2007-03-23 22:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋