i have this boy that i like and he doesnt seem to be interested in me. what do i do? my friends said i should ask him out. should i right away?
-britt
2007-03-23 14:18:08 · 9 answers · asked by curious_grl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hi...why don't you try casual talk with him first and try to find out if he may accept your invitation or not.. that's better than asking him out then he may tell you that he is not intersted
you know casual talk is just an easy way to show him that you are interested and if he is too . he will take the chance and take you out, right?
besides if he isn't interested, i'm sure there are a lot of guys just wish to be with you...so try and if not just move on
Good Luck girl
2007-03-23 14:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by Princess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY.... U have to be interesting - get noticed, do something funny but not stupid... perhaps get a new hair style or something that will make people notice you (not meaning a crazy hair do but make a change so people will start talking about you). Somehow get invovlved in the stuff he is doing so you get more opportunity to be in his face a bit... when you are getting noticed by him, thats when you can ask him out.. Good luck.
2007-03-23 21:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by gudsport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't seem to be interested, I don't think you should ask him out as it would probably result in rejection and hurt feelings. Instead, try getting to know him better and become friends with him.
2007-03-23 21:21:22 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your friends but first start to flirt more in a way that makes you comfortable. Then when you feel that he is interested ask him out, but if your too chicken to ask yourself have a friend do it for you.
2007-03-23 21:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by Wips and Chains 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can tell if someone is feeling you the way you are feeling them. And you said yourself he is not feeling you, so move on and find someone that feels the same way as you. You stick around and you will just end up hurt...
2007-03-23 21:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not ask him how he feels about you? you can ask him out but if he's really not into you, then the whole experience will be just like hanging out with a friend.
2007-03-23 21:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by pee_bag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you interested in him or is it just curiousity, can you talk on the phone, do you feel that you want to be with him, dare not ask for a date unless you truly do know him, it ain't for your friends, bottom line, IT'S GOT TO BE ABOUT YOU!!!!!.
2007-03-23 21:22:44 · answer #7 · answered by DIANE W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to make him see you like him.boys are more attentive to signals than you think.if he likes you he`ll ask you out
2007-03-23 21:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by rauth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him more and get to now him
2007-03-23 21:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ignorant and Happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋