2007-03-23 14:05:06 · 13 answers · asked by alialex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Then that person is not your best friend. Forget them...You are a leader not a follower. Ignore that person..once you do that you'll be on their mind all the time
2007-03-23 14:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should find new friends. I know this may be hard to do at first, but it pays off. Don't waste your time on people who don't feel you're good enough to include in their lives. I know it hurts to lose a best friend, but you are probably young, even if you aren't, you have many, many, friends to look forward to. You should talk to her. Tell her how you feel. If that doesn't work, if she acts like she doesn't know what you're talking about, or she gets mad, then move on! These people she's hanging out with don't have a history with her like you do. She may soon realize that, and miss you, because you all were closer and had a more meaningful friendship that was based on more. But no matter what happens, there are more people out there you can be friends with. Remember: There is a reason people from your past don't make it to your future. You may not no the reason now, but you will later and you will be thankful for that. If you need anything, e-mail me. Hope I helped, hun. = ) Good luck!
2007-03-23 21:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. Two solutions:
-Talk with her about your relationship and say "What happened to the good times we used to have? Are we still friends?" You'll know her true feelings about you that way. If she still likes you and promises she'll hang out with you more, then keep being friends with her. If not, see the next solution.
- Make new friends. As people grow older, their interests and thus, their friends change. Maybe you should join another clique or group that makes you feel welcome and are more comfortable with. It's sad, but it's time for a change in friends
Good luck. Whatever the outcome, hope all goes well
2007-03-23 21:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by TUTU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best childhood friend dropped me like a hot potato when she met a new girl who started going to her church. I went to sunday school at another church. She never had anymore time for me.. soooo... I just stopped talking to her and made friends with other people at school and at church and yes I made sure I had a hobby to work on in my spare time. After all the dust settled, her family moved from our town and if we had stayed close, I would have been devastated. You never know what is in the plan of life. Find a clique of your own and get comfortable with some new friends..
2007-03-23 21:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by ricketyoldbat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to talk to her about it. Things can get pretty bad if you approach her with it in a bad way. If she is treating you less than how she used to just because she is in a clique, you may want to consider finding a more trustworthy, honest, real friend. Good luck.
2007-03-23 21:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ben R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to be in the clique?? people change and sometimes grow apart. this doesnt mean shes not your friend, just that has others,too. find some new people to hang-out with. have lots of fun, she may notice.
remember little-bo-peep????
2007-03-23 21:09:17 · answer #6 · answered by junebuggie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was a true friend, she would include you in her life. If she'd rather be a follower and not stand beside you as a friend, forget her. Don't waste your time with people who don't treat you like friends should, who don't respect you. You deserve better.
2007-03-23 21:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by lovin' life... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't a real friend now is she?! If she walks away for a group of other people and snubs you to be with them that is not a friend. You need to find a real freind you can count on.
2007-03-23 21:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by Stefbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happend to me but she want worth it and turns out the preppy people were only using her for answers and so that they wouldnt have to walk to classes alone when there friends werent there and for lunch money and gum so now she is not my friend and the preppy people but they accepted me and i am their real friend and now she is trying yo use me just stick with your real friends
2007-03-23 21:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that ever happened to me then i would kinda back off from my friend and just move on because it would be obvious that they dont really care anymore or they would spend more time with me. maybe your friend will eventually get bored with it and come bak to their original self
2007-03-23 21:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by tomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋