I found the closest to pefect guy you will ever meet. We have been together 8 years and the thought of cheating has never crossed our minds. We are better than that!! But, it seems that all of our married friends are either cheating or has taken someone back with an excuse as to why they cheated. How many couple have cheated and actually worked it out and stayed together? How many can say they never cheated in any relationship. And people please, tell me why you would cheat? Be honest, this is our 2nd marriage for both of us because our exes cheated, I want to know what our chances are . thanks
2007-03-23 13:45:27 · 23 answers · asked by lilkismet73 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My wife and I have never cheated in seven years together. Most of our close friends haven't either, but we hang out with people who are spiritually oriented and may be less likely to. If you're committed to each other, there's no reason to cheat.
When my wife & I aren't feeling close, and there's no physical intimacy, other women start to look interesting. But I haven't taken any action on it and don't plan to. I know it would ruin my marriage, and that's more important to me than a quick fling.
I wouldn't be comfortable with friends who were cheating all the time. I'd start to wonder about how I choose my companions-- or worse, start thinking that their behavior is "normal."
2007-03-23 13:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by dj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never cheated. Simply because if I ever wanted to be with someone else, I would respect the person I was in a relationship enough to end it before I pursued something new. I think your chances of not cheating on each-other are good, since you both hold those values strongly...but statistically (and take that for what it's worth) 2nd marriages have higher divorce rates than first. BUT just because marriages are failing all around you, doesn't mean that you can't have a close loving marriage..just work on it together and you will be fine.
2007-03-23 13:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might say there are just some women persons, fewer men obtainable that would locate cheating to be some thing they never supply a attempt, for inherent motives. of course she's a sl*t if she cheats on a similar time as married and might would desire to be tar and feathered, and get those feathers plucked. : ) i might additionally say it has allot to do together with her upbringing and values... now and returned the ability you could percieve between the girls persons and her mum and dad key to gauge the relevance of those analytics. women persons do no longer would desire to be stricken if their guy cheats anyhow.. if have been good men we can/would desire to cheat.. (women persons started all this).. its a organic correct endowed to us because of the fact of ways women persons are.. it makes a greater advantageous international as long as you do no longer sleep with married women persons. and notwithstanding if guy does cheat it additionally won't rely because of the fact a marvelous guy/KINg will never dethrone the queen for A SKANK... + has choosen his queen very correct. So only undergo in concepts 2 issues including your marriage... a million. you have the splendid to cheat if its a high quality/discretionary cheat if your a marvelous guy. 2. if your a marvelous guy you will possibly've choosen the spouse that isn't cheat on you. Sorry for people who don't agree.. yet behold quickly sufficient this may be printed actuality.. and that i'm getting each and each of the credit for its inherent and organic discovery/illumination of this. so which you will the two see the sunshine or stand interior the darkness... the alternative is yours!
2016-10-01 09:44:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not say that I never cheated in a relationship (pre-marriage days) but I have not cheated on my wife of 10 years.
2007-03-23 21:41:40 · answer #4 · answered by MARCUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well counting Adam and Eve I think there is one more for sure you two lovers. People cheat because they first flirt and the flirting leads to elsewhere. If all the worlds a cheat it really wouldn't matter if you and your Hubby love each other and stay true. Want Guarantees? There are none but, Love conquers all.
2007-03-23 13:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Second marriage and NO I NEVER CHEATED
married the firs time 26 years and was true till I knew it was over now married 6 years and not happy, but I would not cheat on him. Love it self is a chance.. and I wish you luck
2007-03-23 14:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have cheated. I got tempted so many times. I just did it. U get this feeling like what if there is something better out there. I didnt want to give up the relationship i had with my man but i wanted to know what else was out there. will i find a man that i will like better. Questions like that run through your head and for me i gave in to them
2007-03-23 14:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by angel2eyes01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will have been married for 7 years and never cheated.
2007-03-23 14:17:44 · answer #8 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never cheated on my husband and he has never cheated on me. But, I don't think anyone is, as you put it, better than that. You have to be constantly aware of your actions and not put yourself in a situation where something could happen. I don't think anybody is "better than that." We are all capable of making a bad decision. It's about making a commitment, sticking to it, and keeping yourself away from trouble.
2007-03-23 18:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Krissi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cheating in our five years of marriage. Don't worry about what it seems like others are doing, you are unique individuals and have a unique relationship - make it what you want it to be.
2007-03-23 14:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by finra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋