I have takin 2 test and they both said negative. But I think I took them to early . I’m about 2 weeks late now and my body has been acting really weird... I told my ex boyfriend that I might be pregnant and he freaked out... he told me he has to much goin on in him life right now and has to much goin for him right now and does not want a baby... to TOLD me that I was goin to get an abortion or give the baby up for adoption... I could never do any of that!! I want the baby if I am pregnant and will love it with all my heart and this baby would be surrounded by a very loving family.
Now plz be nice im not a sl*t or anything and my family would be there for me and my baby no matter what...
Im 17
He is 19
2007-03-23 13:43:26 · 2 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm not hear to judge you on your age or your situation.
if you are 2 weeks late, and have taken 2 test, then they should be accurate. Most hpt pick up the pregnancy hormone hcg up to 5 days before a missed period. Have you had a history with late or irregular periods?
If you are not pregnant, it could be for a few reasons. One would be you are under so much stress from this situation that it has delayed your period. The other could be your cycle is changing or a possible STD.
If you don't want to get your parents involved at this time, i would suggest that you get checked out at the doctor. You can go to planned parenthood for free. check http://www.plannedparenthood.org for the center that is closest to you.
As for him not wanting the baby, its not his choice. it is yours. Not even your parents. it is yours. No one can make you get and abortion or make you give your child up for adoption if you are pregnant. If you are pregnant and you do deliver, file for child support from him as soon as you do (can be done at your county social services or court office). That will be the most responsible thing to do to help take care of your child.
I wish you the best of luck. Feel free to email me if you have any questions.
2007-03-23 18:32:29 · answer #1 · answered by Kynnie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you need to go see a doctor and get confirmation. once you know then you can go from there. but if you are and you really want to keep it and have a good support system...you should. it's your body and your baby (possibly) so you should make the choice you know is right for you.
2007-03-23 23:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋