does it ever lead to reconciliation or does lead to divorce
2007-03-23 13:31:06 · 11 answers · asked by Sad Eyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
they get seperated to try to figure out what they want from the relationship. sometimes it can lead to reconciliation and sometimes to divorce. sometimes a seperation period is just what a couple needs to be able to see whats missing or how they want their lives to be like in the future.
2007-03-23 13:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People get separated because they grow apart. It usually means that one person has outgrown the other spiritually or emotionally. It doesn't mean that they didn't once love each other. They recognize that the time has come for them to go their separate ways.
Separation can lead to reconciliation if they resolve the differences that lead to the separation. It requires complete honesty from both about their shortcomings or differences of opinion. I think it more likely leads to divorce. That's not a bad thing. It is much better for them to be separate and happy than together and miserable. Wish them both happiness and love, either together or separately.
Do not take responsibility for any of their feelings and actions. They both love you even if they might be having a hard time showing it if they are feeling bad about themselves right now. Learn from them. They will show you through the good and bad what makes for a good relationship.
2007-03-23 13:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people get seperated because they need that time to re-evaluate their relationship. They also need time apart so that if they ever do get back together they want to test their love and see if there is still chemistry between the two. A lot of seperations do lead to divorce and/or no reconciliation which means they probably weren't ment to be together in the first place. It is different for every relationship, I find that in lots of marriages couple fall in and out of love ALL the time, which is healthy for a relationship believe it or not, its only natural that this happens. If you are on a break with your loved one, don't let patience get the worst of you, stay calm and collected and be patient with your loved one. If they decide they don't want to reconcile the relationship then you know it was never ment to be in the first place! There are too manh fish in the sea!
2007-03-23 13:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by mia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
separation very rarely leads to reconciliation . Its more of a preamble to divorce . The one who asked for the separation is usually the one who wants out . Sorry to hear your in that situation . Separation with therapy has a better chance of working though. good luck
2007-03-23 13:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Peace of Mind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on what the both of you want, it can't be one sided, or the relationship will fail again.
I separated from my mate of 71/2 years for 8 months then we got back together because that's what we both wanted, and now we try to discus our differences over before either one of us walk out again. Yes his is still my husband and no divorce.
2007-03-23 13:49:05 · answer #5 · answered by reddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people choose to reconcile, but it takes willingness to admit fault by both parties for that to happen.... generally this does not happen. If you happen to be in the situation where both parties are forgiving, then yes it can. Most people though hold grudges and this is why it usually does not get reconciled and divorce happens.
2007-03-23 13:36:41 · answer #6 · answered by angela 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the circumstances that led to the sepration. have seen it go either way..some people just need a little space from the other.. and some free time to figure things out.. sometimes the anger is too deep to get baack together.. lot of different kinds of people and they all react differently to separation...
2007-03-23 13:36:36 · answer #7 · answered by road runner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can go either way--but places like where i live, NC...i have to be separated a year before we can file for divorce, that's why we're seperated
2007-03-23 14:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Allyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some couples separate due to they just dont know how to deal with the problem at hand..Other separate for infidelity reasons...
2007-03-23 13:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by **Mishelly** 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time out.......it can be a good thing to step back and assess the relationship. Things can go either way, but at least you address it and not waste time and energy.
2007-03-23 13:37:00 · answer #10 · answered by DRH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋