I really don't like my life right now and its been like this for a year or 2. My friend hasn't talked to me in a month. I barely have good friends people always say things to me that hurt my feelings. No one understands me, I feel like no one will ever love me and I hate the fact people call me emo when I say Im not. Because I never really talk and hide. What should I do?because Im always down?
2007-03-23 13:04:29 · 14 answers · asked by ~~~~~~******* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hun' you need to get some new friends go some where you don't usually do something you usually wouldn't depression really sucks(trust me i know)you need to find something to cheer you up
2007-03-23 13:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you don't have that many friends. We need friends to help us go through this stage of life and apparently, you don't have one who you can cry on his/her shoulders.
Do you belong to a church? You can hang out with the ladies there - they are much more sympathetic than the worldly ones.
One important thing - you have to like yourself - because at some point in our lives - we will be by ourselves. Pick up some hobbies that you would enjoy and spend time on things that would cheer you up. Watch comedy shows, take a nice long bubble bath while listening to music; this will help calm you down.
I spend a lot of time listening to sermons - it helps me spiritually.
Seek medical attention if all fail. Take care sweetie. Hug.
2007-03-23 20:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Negative thoughts make you sad. Also you might be too sensitive? Toughen up and quit worrying about what others say or think. You are your own counsel and friend. You start from within. The rest, you really can't control. The only one you can control is yourself and how you perceive things. Just be happy and be genuine...
2007-03-23 21:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by It is what it is 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I have never been that way because I have had friends all my life. But I would just be happier talk 2 people. Ask them what they like.Stuff like that. If that doesnt work... I dont know what to tell ya. sorry.
Nina
2007-03-23 20:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have to do is ignore those people. Only reason they stuff like that, it to boost their self-esteem. They figure, if they pick on you, it will make them feel superior, when in all actuality, they aren't. Just keep your head up. Don't let "stupid" people bring you down. If you ever need to talk, you can e-mail me(atlbabie15@yahoo.com) , I am always free. I'm sure you are going to be fine!!!!
2007-03-23 21:10:45 · answer #5 · answered by atlbabie15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change schools and make new friends who care about you. Do you have any family you are close to? Find something that you really like to do and do it. Get your mind out of being depressed. If not, maybe seek counseling. Hope you feel better.
2007-03-23 20:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to reverse that introvert character of yours, when you isolate yourself you hurt yourself by not socializing with those around you. We are all on this planet to love one another and hiding will not accomplish anything. You are loved but you don't know it. Be strong and never give up.
2007-03-23 21:06:24 · answer #7 · answered by someone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about anything others say. You can e-mail or I.M. me if you want to, you can talk about anything to get your mind off of the day. Or ask about something you want to learn about. Find a fun hobby to vent with, or focus on caring for a pet.
2007-03-23 20:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by Firefly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your friend doesn't want to associate because you are depressing. You need to get help. Get out and do something fun. Don't be shy and talk to people.
2007-03-23 20:12:22 · answer #9 · answered by Krissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a place where there are lots of people who are participating in activities you enjoy (i.e. bowling, baseball, pool, swimming, bike riding, etc). Just being around people who share the same interests as you helps! It does me! Good luck!
2007-03-23 20:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by Hammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋