on soulmates?

Question

are soulmates real?...how would you know if he/she is your true soulmate?...

Answer 1

Good question.
There are different theories. Some people think your soul mate is some one your totally in sync with. You can finish each others sentences, know what each other is thinking, even if not physically together etc.

But what I believe is that your soul mate is the person who can challenge you on a very deep level. The person who makes you or even forces you to grow into your own being. The person who makes you find your True Self, by poking at those parts of yourself that are still in shadow, still undeveloped or unrealized.

I think it's the sort of person you make a deal with before you incarnate on this plane.

I heard a saying that we are not human beings having a spiritual experience, but spiritual beings having a human experience.

And as other writers have written. We can have more than one soul mate, and it is not necessarily a lover. It could be a parent, sibling, child etc.
But they can reach you like no other!

Answer 2

I think, (although I do not know) that its going to be true compatability. You just click. Without that one person you wouldn't feel right, not in a creepy jealous way like they cannot leave the house or go on a trip without you, but in a way like you feel you're not whole when they are not with you, like when you break up or they go away for a trip, that lasts a few days. You care for their feelings and their happiness, (again, you shouldn't just care for their feelings and happiness you need to be happy also), I think it will just feel right.

Answer 3

You don't!
You just take your chance and risk everything on a simple hypothetical term, that this person MIGHT or MIGHT NOT be your soul mate... And then you let time and situations reveal whether this is true or not!