I have been in a new environment and every swap and swing with each other husbands and wives. I was asked to join a group because i am a single woman and most couples love single women. i must say that it does turn me on a bit but i feel that it's wrong to have sex with anyone what do you feel about it?
2007-03-23 12:46:47 · 6 answers · asked by Mz.G 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would love to try swapping and swinging, but I don't have anyone to swap and I don't have that much to swing either.
2007-03-23 13:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by Toeless_Joe_Jackson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have been swinging for over 3 years now, so I'd have to say we are in favor of it. For us. If you are uncomfortable with either the thought of group sex, or sex in general for that matter, then what anyone else thinks of it should not matter. We are into the lifestyle because we enjoy it, and we have made many, very good friends. Most group settings will not pressure you into doing anything, and if they do, run as fast as you can from them. No means no, and they should accept that. If after you get to know people, but are still uncomfortable with the sex aspect, then the lifestyle is not for you. I'm sure you will make the right decision, based on how you feel.
2007-03-27 06:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by allencple246 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We have been swingers for 3 years. Single women (well, DECENT single women) are hard to come by.
Keep in mind you will make friends but you are the 5th wheel. No romance for you in this. It may make finding a husband some day very difficult.
2007-03-26 00:29:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was never interested-- both intellectually and morally.
I have some friends who participated though and most of them were done with it after a couple of months. After the initial excitment, they found the men to be kinda gross, the women jealous and not too nice and the whole thing kind kinda "icky".
2007-03-23 12:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa the Pooh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive had gf's involved with me and my hubby and they were all positive hot times. i would pick a couple your attracted too and just go for it....lol most swingers aint all that im afraid.
2007-03-24 01:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it shows why "marriage" has to preciously guarded and not allowed to gay people.
2007-03-23 12:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋