I have a friend who used to be my best friend. I was the only male she trusted because she knows that guys are good friends but terrible boyfriends, I love her very much but for a while I was talking to this other girl and I told her (my best friend) that I couldn't talk to her and that really hurt her a lot. As soon as I knew how hurt she was, I apologized and broke everything off with the girl that I was talking to. She really trusted me, and she forgave me but I am now just another guy who can be her friend but I doubt shell ever consider me as a boyfriend let alone anything more. I regret my idiot statement of telling her that I couldn't talk to her. I Love her sooo much. What can I or should I do?
2007-03-23 12:03:39 · 3 answers · asked by iwearshoes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This sounds like a case of not knowing what you have until it's gone... or in this case, almost gone! When you told this other girl you wanted to break things off, you chose your friend as the person that was most important, and maybe you realized how much she really means to you! You obviously love her enough to want more out of the relationship. So you need to tell her that!
Of course it's scary when you don't know if she feels the same, but would you really be content for your whole life knowing you might have let the opportunity pass by?
Good luck!
2007-03-23 12:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Sunni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. You'll gain her trust gradually. Trust me i'm a girl! We're all bitchy about each other but after a bit of time we begin to trust! You need to give her time or you'll loose her for good! Good Luck
2007-03-23 19:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by Alex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you telling me this? Tell HER.
2007-03-23 19:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by outlaw_tattoo_biker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋