My girlfriend broke up with me...and she has a boyfriend now.
It's been six month and we really don't talk that much anymore.
yesterday , she says she still loves me the way she used to but she also cares about her boyfriend. Her boyfriend is 1 year younger than her and she is 3 younger than me. He makes her say sorry in an argument all the time and for me i'll just get mad and later compromises. She said she is so confused on what she wants when she thinks about it. She knows i am willing to work things out whatever the problem that broke us up, She said that she wants me but at the same time she doesn't. That doesn't she doesn't know how to explain it.
She said it's my choice if i want to find another girlfriend.
She wants to come and see me. I said why...she reply i just want to. At first we argued and later i said sure. It wouldn't hurt much. Any ideas about what to do when i see her?
2007-03-23 11:55:34 · 7 answers · asked by Good and Evil 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She doesn't really want you. If she did, she would tell you so flat out instead of being so wishy washy in her decision, and...she wouldn't be inviting you to find another girlfriend.
Girls just like to know that they are wanted and that a guy thinks they are pretty, sexy, etc. Perhaps her new boyfriend isn't giving her this attention and she knows that you did before and probably will again---don't confuse this with her wanting to start a relationship with you again. LET ME REPEAT--when a girl invites you to go out with another girl ---RED LIGHT, RED LIGHT---I'm sorry to say--she doesn't want a "real" relationship with you. Be on your toes my dear--she's about to use you for something--be it an attention thing, to make her boyfriend jealous, a few compliments, whatever. Please don't be a fool even if you still love her.
And....don't start anything with her when you see her. Not even a kiss. You will be sorry and your heart will get broken again.
2007-03-23 12:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, she broke up with u. now she wants to keep u on the side just in case it doesn't work out with the other dude. When she comes 2 see u, ask her out, tell her just 4 old times sake. If she says yes, make a date then blow it off. U know a part of u really wants to be the one that ends it. She did it to u once she'll do it again. I know I've done it.
2007-03-23 19:07:21 · answer #2 · answered by cheesecake3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a psycho. Forget her. I don't know how old you are, but you sound young, so you're sure to meet a lot of girls in the future. Don't waste time on one that screws with your head. Oh, and for any girls reading this, same goes for you. Don't waste time on guys that do the same thing. And do be too hung up on looks. You've heard that all your life, but it's true. There's more to a person than what meets the eye (and sometimes a whole lot less).
2007-03-23 19:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by subatomic wonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply make it a great time because it will probably be the last time you see her.
You are making yourself too available. Let her make a decision BEFORE you see her. She "wants her cake and she wants to eat it too" (a stupid saying but you get my drift).
Everyone wants what they can't have.. tell her you changed your mind and move on with your life. If she finally decides she has chosen you then you can make your decision about her.
2007-03-23 19:01:48 · answer #4 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a boyfriend so what the hell is there to talk about !!! going to exchange recipes!!!! I say get on with it..And find someone who knows what is real in her life...
2007-03-23 19:02:49 · answer #5 · answered by huckleberrie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to make up her mind your not gonna wait on her forevere you have a life too tell her you still care about her too but she gots to make a decision, don't let her treat you like an on call guy that she can get whenever she feels like it.
2007-03-23 19:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by krasy k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you are still "friends" with her, then just listen to her when she visits.
2007-03-23 19:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by k_ahhhhhs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋