thinking too much about if others like me?

Question

i'm really worried that this person i met doesn't like me. or has something against me- it might be a past action, my personality, something....and it's really getting to me! i'm not sure if it's all in my head- he's very polite, but i get the feeling that he tries hard to make sure I don't feel he favoritiizes me in any way. like, he won't look me in the eye on purpose, sometimes, or pays extra attention to someone beside me instead!

i can't explain it, but i feel so strange! please help. :-(

i won't ever get the chance to ask him about it.

Answer 1

He might like you and doesn't want you to know. He might also think you don't like him.

Answer 2

I had the same problem. I used to worry what people thought about me. I came to the conclusion that they either like me or not. Everyone is not going to like us for some dumb reason or another. Also how do you act around this person? Could it be that he's just shy? Just give it time and see or just ask him is there something you did that is causing them to act like this. Good luck.

Answer 3

don't bother youself with these question , let it be what's gonna be , one doesn't learn in this world easy , you had to experience a thing to learn from it , okay lets assume the man hates you ! so what ?? he's gonna stick with you until oneday he had it and that's it then he say to you that's it enoughhhhhh you are this and that , then you will know about the this and the that and you change them , and every thing goes okay !

Answer 4

Don't even ask him - it could be that you bear a resemblance to his old girlfriend or he always goes for girls who look just like you and guess what - they always dump him - so he knows he'd be a fool to even try to know you.

Answer 5

Don't worry about if anyone likes you cause you can always coun't on your family