i love my boyfriend to death i would take a bullet for him i love him so much but what should i do my mom said i cant talk or see him no more so she said after i graduate i could do what i want so should we take a break til then ?? or should i still see him with out her finding out ??? plz help me
2007-03-23 11:45:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and i graduate next year
2007-03-23 11:46:43 · update #1
if you go behind your moms back and she finds out that will damage your relationship with her and she wil not trust you,your mom will be in your life always this boy may not,and if it is meant to last he will wait for you
2007-03-23 11:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is right - she's loved you all your life and can see far down the road.
The boy will still be there - after graduation - really he will.
Please listen to her.
It will be hard to take a break now, but your bf is worth waiting for and he will be so proud that you graduated.
It is worth waiting for the day when you, he and your mother all go out for dinner as friends.
2007-03-23 11:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by Stan W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gosh that was really mean...well hun i think you should talk to your boyfriend and your mother.first talk to your mom. ask her why you cant see or talk to him.you can tell her that you have a lot of feelings for this guy. your mother was probly in this position at some point she will understand.if she still insist that you cant see or talk to him tell her you understand and your gonna talk to your boyfriend one last time to tell him whats gonna happen.she'll understan this. so now with the boyfriend. Tell him you love him and really care for him and if he cares and loves you as much as you do him he will wait for you. If thats the case he will wait and after graduation you can get back together. i know this is kind of long but theres a lot to know.I will pray for you. i hope everything works out.
2007-03-23 11:54:20 · answer #3 · answered by nici smittenbaum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you might still be in high school. You should respect your mom. If your love is meant to last, he'll still be there when you graduate. Often the best things in life are worth waiting for.
2007-03-23 11:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by daisy99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your mom wants you to take a break from him, take a break for awhile. Talk to your mom again and ask her why she thinks its best you take a break. If your grades are slipping, get them back up and then ask if its okay if you talk to your boy again.
If you do it behind her back, she will just find out and not trust you. I would be upfront and just ask what you can do to still have contact with him.
2007-03-23 11:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Krystina M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk with your mother. Tell her how you feel. he must have done something to piss her off. Is he a bad influeance on you? does he have a record? If not parents just pick and choose. Tell your mother your feelings and tell her that you love them both and dont want to choose. Dont sneak around your mother...lies break relationships and id rather have my mom and no guy than a guy and no mom
2007-03-23 11:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lea S. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw. thats so sweet. I would still talk to him. Just not in front of my mothers face. I know that sounds bad. BUT if u really love him... i think u could do that. or on the other hand u could break it up until then...but @ that point another gurl could slip in and take ur place. GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-23 11:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Abby,,[[RAWR]] 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you should listen to your mom.she said you could do what you want after you graduate.your mom like all moms want the best for theyre daughter.she wants you to concentrate on school.and if you have a boyfriend then you really cant fully do that.so i think you and your bf should take a break and just focus on school.and just get back together after you guys graduate!family first!and guys come and go.if its meant to be then its meant to be!
2007-03-23 11:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by Itsjustme 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't your mom want you to see him? She must have a good reason. You know I bet that you don't love him like you think you do. I think that if you do take a break from eachother it won't last. Do you honestly think that he'll stay loyal to you? If you want to keep him than see him without your mom knowing or he won't stay.
2007-03-23 11:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There has got to be a good reason for your mom forbidding you to see him. Consider her point, she's been around way longer than you. These high school crushes pass.
2007-03-23 11:48:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋