i'm sleeping with a married man .tell me am i cheating or is he ?

Answer 1

he is but you are wrong in what you are doing

Answer 2

You both are. And remember most married man don't leave there wife's or if they do there not divorcing any time soon. Your just the other women but I guess you like that. You settle for being second best to a man. And if your believing his bull why he cheating on his wife, most married men say, there wife b i c t h s and nags to much, he there for the kids, he don't want to pay child support, she not good in bed, they don't talk much, she to emotional my God don't ever become like THAT!, he will throw you to the dirt, he can't throw his wife the the dirt, but he could you. And right now your saying all the right things and doing all the right things to keep him in the bed. Let me ask you why would you want to sleep with other women man. Do you think she a bad women, on the things he told you.Just keep in mind little girl, your with a lire and a cheater going to tell you anything. And don't give me that bull he not like that and I don't know the whole story, I don't need to know the whole story. He married. Wait until your married or get into a real relationship your going to get yours 10X's worse. Wake up girl OH excuse me women. Not a lady, a lady don't settle for second best and she has more self worth about herself then to sleep with married men. Remember that.

Answer 3

How could it be somehow his fault, but not yours, when you know the situation?

You're both cheating.

You know that he's married. He knows that he's married, yet you are having sex? Why?

There's only one end to this story, and you might not be willing to accept it: You have to break off the relationship.

It never works otherwise. He's very unlikely to get a divorce just for your sake. He might tell you otherwise, and he might even believe it, but he won't do it. Why should he? He gets marriage AND you as it is now.

Some people die from knowingly being in this type of relationship. You better quit.

Just think of the amount of men who have killed the lover of their wife. It doesn't happen the other way too much, but sometimes.

Anyway, I'm sure his wife will have some fine words for you at the least, and we all know what those words will be.

Save yourself the pain.

Answer 4

well its like this he is the cheater but in the end it does not make you any better of a person for doing this with him even though you are not in a relationship and i am wondering why are you willing to be someones second best are you not worth more then this? and i know let me guess she is a bit#ch who is horrible to him and their kids or she does not want sex from him ever or they really agreed to do their own thing or she cheated on him with like 50 other guys and so on and so forth and he just cant leave because of a long list of things from money to a house and kids ! lady get over it he basically found someone with low standards who is willing to sleep with someone Else's worthless husband (because if he was any good he would just leave her not cheat on her) and even if anything he said was true about her you should still think enough of your self to not be anyone dirty little secret who he will never let his mom meet or his co-workers and if he was ever caught would deny or say you meant nothing and i don't know about you but even if it were just about sex you don't care about him i still deserve to be treated like a lady and taken to dinner and shown the respect that if someone he knew drove by he wouldn't either act like he did not know me or that i was just some no body from work or something!
what you need to do is really realize the story is all ways the same and no matter how you want to spin it or he does to try and make this OK its not hes married and so there for you should have enough respect for your self to tell him call me when you leave because in the end he is not with you because he respect you the person he respects is the person he fears will find out about this because with her he has more to lose with you its just sex and a lot of sunshine he is blowing up your butt so have a little self respect and dump him or tell him look until you leave her and are free i am no ones bottie call i am worth more so when you leave call me till then go home to your wife!

Answer 5

He's cheating on his wife, but you are just as much to blame as he is. He couldn't cheat on his wife if he didn't have women that are willing to sleep with him knowing he is married. Keep this in mind, if he cheats on his wife, he will most definitely cheat on you! He may tell you that you are special, but can you really trust a man that is low enough to cheat on his wife?

Answer 6

Sounds to me like you aren't thinking. What do you hope to gain from this? What's the best case scenario? How about the worst? The way I see it, the best that can happen is that you end up with someone who has a history of cheating. The worst is that his wife finds out and snaps.

Answer 7

If your not married...your not cheating. I have flings with just as many married women as i do single women. Just remember its just a fling. You wouldn't want a serious relationship with a man who cheats. It's his fault for cheating and his wife's fault for marrying an untrustworthy hishoe.

Answer 8

Technically he's the cheater since he's married, but that doesn't let you off the hook. You're the homewrecker. Instead of trying to justify your actions leave that married man alone and get a man of your own.

Answer 9

Well you both are..You are fully aware he's married so your an accomplish to his adultery, and you may want to get checked for Sexually Transmitted Diseases as well...What goes around comes around, remember that if you ever find a guy and marry him...he may Cheat on you!

Answer 10

c'mon people, you are so damn hard with that girl! these thing happen, it's only natural. no big deal. because someone is married doesn't mean he / she will not be attracted to someone else. this is not a mortal sin. why are you worried if you are cheating? well, you are not. if you happen to have a husband or boyfriend that would be cheating.
the tricky thing is... make sure you don't cheat on YOURSELF. apart from that, do as you like. his wife is his problem. one maybe married but still owns his own body and desires. it's called independence.

Answer 11

In my opinion, whoever is already in another relationship is the cheater. If you were single when you met him then you have no one to cheat on. You just fell for someone you like. Others will argue that you're just as wrong, I'm sure. I just know that humans will do what they are going to do. None of us are perfect so I won't get on the judging tip.