Hi there, I've been with my girlfriend now for over 2 years,usually things are ok. We have been living in different cities for a while now, we are in different universities, I'm at oxford she is in london. Problems keep cropping up though, she is regularly moody, or depressed. I feel as though I can't take any more of her complaining anymore, that sounds hard, but I'm not being mean. She is always going on about things we need to work on, always makes me seem like the bad guy because I'm busy, or I'm not "emo" or "random" enough. She never seems to acknowledge that some things are her fault.
Then there is this guy, John, who she is becoming friendly with. It turns out she asked for his number, got dressed up for him, calls him sweetie.
I'm going crazy, I feel as though she shows me no respect, because she knows I love her and will take any **** from her. Are we doomed? It's not as bad as it might sound, we just keep going through phases,makes me feel like giving up.
Bruver
2007-03-23 11:32:05 · 1 answers · asked by bruverhoodofman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By the way, I'm sure that she isn't actually cheating on me, I'm more worried that she may be tempted to or that this guy is making her doubt our relationship. She told me about him and (of course) she blamed it on me being away and said she was just over excited about meeting new people, so she has just happened to get close to this guy. But naturally I'm worried about that!
2007-03-24 00:21:57 · update #1
sorry to tell you this but long distance relationship rarely works. the distance is straining you relationship. it takes a very disciplined couple to survive your kind of a relationship and she doesn't have it. and i don't like the fact that she sounds like she's cheating on you
2007-03-23 18:42:07 · answer #1 · answered by mrgudboy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋