My boyfriend cheated on me and I forgave him. I really love him a lot, but I think he is doing the same thing and I don't want to go through this again.
2007-03-23 11:26:45 · 14 answers · asked by ~Diamond~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he cheated on you - what a nerd
nah nah nah nah
nah nah nah nah
hey hey
goodbye
who cares if this one hurts him?
you are too beautiful for that!(how they date is how they live - bye)
2007-03-23 11:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by tom4bucs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you're worried about hurting HIM????? wtf? Tell him you cant trust him right now and you dont want to be with him. If he's cheating he's not gonna give a hoot anyway. There really is no painless way to break up with anyone. If they care enough about you, it will sting. But, the good news is... Time heals all wounds. So do what you have to do for YOU. Follow your gut instincts from here on out. You'll save yourself alot of heartache in the end. Good Luck!
2007-03-23 18:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by FemFatale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BREAK HIS HEART!!! If he is cheating on you; he doesnt really care anyways. He deserves to get hurt. He's obviously hurting you by cheating.
If you dont really want to hurt him just tell him exactally what you just said to us....You love him but dont want to go through with that again.
2007-03-23 18:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...if he cheated on you, why would u care how he felt. But ur a chick and u do care. But, all you have to do is say that you love him, or tell him however u feel bout him, but that u just cant trust him. Trust is the main key in a relationship. Not only about ****** around, but anything. You need a companion not someone to screw u over.
2007-03-23 18:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by Jordyn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Actually you have no control over how other people feel. That is a mistake most people make and it is what leads us to lie. What if he is cheating on you because he wants to see other people but is afraid breaking up with you will hurt your feelings? The most honest way to deal with people is to tell the truth and to allow them to feel however they choose to feel about it. You need to do what is good for you and let him handle it in his own way. Good luck :)
2007-03-23 18:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by grant g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother with him. if hes cheated once it means hes probably going to do it again. the best thing to do is just end it. hes hurt u so y worry about hurting him?
2007-03-23 19:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nat Bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plain and simple don't go through it again. Do u luv yourself r him more. Luv is not suppose 2 hurt that much and being faithful is apart of luv. If u keep forgiving him and taking him back he will never stop, y should he u putting up with it.
2007-03-23 18:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cares about you then getting dumped may hurt him. Then again, if he did care, he wouldn't be cheating on you. Again. Dump his *** and move on. There'll be a better man for you out there somewhere.
2007-03-23 18:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by show83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's cheating on you and youre afraid to hurt him? i dont get it. breaking up with someone who truly loves you by his or her good actions...will hurt. i suppose a cheating guy might get his ego bruised...but that's about it. peace
2007-03-23 18:31:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're worried about hurting him?
Dude...get a grip girlfriend. You have every right to dump him like ricky tick.
2007-03-23 18:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Tadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋