Getting so fed up.Help.I try to please but im getting fed up, bacause its only when he wants.Hes getting boring and i want my life to start.Im 43 and they say life begins.Well i would like mine to,cause excitement never came into it,unless i made it happen.woahhhhhh.yes i realise now.
2007-03-23 11:24:46 · 4 answers · asked by patsy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Been there, done that. You need to move on. A healthy relationship is give and take between two partners who mutually respect each other and each others needs.
Let him know how you feel. If he is not willing to listen or work on the relationship, just move on. You deserve to be happy.
Take from one who was there and is now the happiest girl on earth with the most wonderful guy.
2007-03-23 11:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mary E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh well, we all realize some things too late. We at times realize we may have been better off to have married another. We could have done a lot of things differently yet we didnt. We all seem to think we missed out on something.
Lady, look, you made your choice. There is no reason that you should not be expected to live by your choice, your word, your promise and your commitments.
Excitement can come in many different forms and variations. Not all of them good or fun or good for us. Boring and boredom are at times blessings which we are simply too stubborn or too stupid to appreciate and give thanks for.
Now, you say it is all about him. I bet that if this is how he is, you saw it before marriage and decided to give it a shot anyway, right? You opted in. We dont always have a right to a do over.
Look, everyone for the most part nowadays is looking for an excuse or permission to do wrong or bad or immoral. Again, you made your choices. You may not be willing to see that your life might be what others dream of having or ask God for daily. And you had a large hand in how your life is, dont forget that.
2007-03-23 18:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So go out and do something exciting..
Invite him to come along, if he says no,
go without him....
2007-03-23 18:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, you'll never please him no matter what you do. The only person you should worry about pleasing is yourself.
2007-03-23 18:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋