I still like "him" a lots but we don't talk anymore but he do look at me. There's time I really want to tell him that I still like him but there's time I just chicken out. Is it a sign that I want to hide from him, but sometime it ends up I'm always bumping into him? I always though that if I call him, he will just reject my calls or he will be like I'll call you back later but he never does. We use to like each other. I think we lost feelings for eeach other because we do talk, but there's is like nothing to talk about because before we talk for like hours and hours. We liked each other in September and than we stopped talking right before the dance and he we started talking before the valentine's day and the next day he asked me to be his valentine :] I miss those times<3 But for some reason we been liking eahc other 4 weeks and than hit the 5 weeks right before the dance we stopped talking. should I call him? I mean I'm scared ! ]:
2007-03-23 11:11:35 · 9 answers · asked by teheheitsanna :] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should really call him. i mean it wouldnt hurt if you just tried. take a risk(:
2007-03-23 16:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by ashleyisretro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be scared-- relationships are scary things! But it sounds like this guy is really worth it to you. If you feel uncomfortable calling him on the phone (I definately understand that, I am so not a phone person), you could try casually bringing it up in a conversation (ie- "Hey, I know we haven't really hung out lately, but would you like to go out for pizza sometime or something?").
Another option that's even less scary than talking face to face is shooting him an email, im, or posting on a website if he has one. The internet is a great way to talk to people without actually "talking"-- just be careful you pick out the right words so it's clear what you're trying to say.
As far as what to talk about... what are some of his interests? What are some of yours? Do you have anything in common? How about things that've happened lately? As long as you keep the conversation going by asking him questions and letting him have a turn to speak, you'll hopefully find yourself right back where you were conversation-wise. Good luck :)
2007-03-23 11:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by janeowyn180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okayy well if he really likes you.. You'll know.. he'll tell you..
Make sure he has your email,messager s/n,phone #... Don't make it look like your chasing him.. then he'll screw you over.. (not literally) Don't focus all your thoughts on this guy.. look at other guys also.. It sounds like he might still like you or not know what his feelings are.. Its so odd your bumping into him all the time!! Maybe hes been following you and you didn't know?
You might find out some things later on.. Don't call him.. let him call you.. If he doesnt , find someone else who knows what they want!
2007-03-23 11:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by MeganElizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the most attractive quality a person can possess. Be honest with him. If he rejects you then yes, it will be hard but you'll be able to move on. If he doesn't then you will never regret your move. It would be a lovely story to tell the grandchildren some day.
2007-03-23 11:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would call him. Since you are bumping into him, just be yourself and smile. Nothing wrong with a little flirting with him but don't over do it. If he gets the message and is interested, he will let you know. Good luck.
2007-03-23 11:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't hurt to try. Everyone's scared of rejection, but it's worse to go through life not knowing what could have happened if you DID call but didn't.
2007-03-23 11:15:35 · answer #6 · answered by bhanphrionsa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure.......call him and just ask him if everything is okay.
There may be something going on in his life that has nothing to do with you and the only way to find out is ask.
Then if he ignores you or acts funny.......you know its time to move on.
2007-03-23 11:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scared of what? He's a guy. What can a phone call do?
2007-03-23 11:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u mean sHe or what?
2007-03-23 11:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Underwater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋