I was very happy last school year i had many freinds lots of crushs and it was an awsome year.Everthing was great untill i moved thats when the great pain began. Its almost been a full school year and im not happy because i have no friends i can be my slef around or eles they will look at me weird and theri very quik to judge ,No one likes me my famliy is very complicated all i can say is that there .And my freids from my old school re placed and forgot about me and a guy who i like ignors me i fell lonly very lonly. andconfued,and losyt about my feelings. help what do i do please i hate being this way i miss my self.
2007-03-23 10:55:27 · 9 answers · asked by angel274888 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, what is there to say about that. As I was reading this it reminded me of A movie I had seen to many times. So, get noticed, get interesting, rent a movie that I have seen, your life and get your life back. Plan B. Theropy has always worcked. Try it out!
2007-03-23 14:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My grandson went through this last year. He was 16 when they moved to another school district. He had to leave all his friends, and this boy was heavy into sports, was on the basketball team, baseball, track. He had a very hard time adjusting in his new school, but slowly he is making a lot of nice friends again and getting back into sports. I think that you need to put forth a good effort ot make some nice friends. Also, a good place to start, is in a church. Most churches have youth groups, which are wonderful for teenagers. We have one in my church, and these kids are wonderful, kind and very understnding. If you continue to feel this way, maybe you should talk to someone. It is very hard for kids to leave their friends, and it is not easy to deal with. But my dear, you must take control of this situation before it controls you. You can do it. My grandson did it, and we are all very proud of him. He had a hard time making friends, but he kept at it and everything worked out. I know it will for you too. Always remember, you are a unique person, so smile no matter how you feel, and hang in there. Above all, talk to your parents. Perhaps you need a support group to help you through this. No matter how hard and dismal things look right now, you will be o.k and it will get better. Hold your head high, keep your chin up put your best foot forward. I wish you the best, and I will keep you in my prayers.
2007-03-23 11:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what hun...just take a deep breath. It is okay to feel the way you are feeling. It's very normal for those kind of feelings to occur at your age. It is A VERY DIFFICULT TIME in life...that age. School, friends, boys, family!!! It can be overwhelming. If you don't have very many friends...don't beat yourself up. I didn't have that many friends either. I learned to be ok with just me. I had a good time because I did lots of things that I wanted to do...I didn't have to wait on other people to hear what they wanted to do. I pleased myself. Learn to find out what makes you happy. Maybe running outside while you listen to some music. Or you could read books. Go to the library. Learn how to do new things. I'm sure you will make friends sooner or later. But for now..it is a-okay. I'm sure people like you...you just have a hard time seeing it. Your family will come around. I feel lonely too sometimes..and confused and I'm 22! All you really need is someone or something to turn to...when you feel this way. Maybe a pet or a journal..or someone older who you can count on. Trust me dear..it will all be okay. Just tell yourself that... Don't be so hard on yourself. You deserve to be happy. I'm sure you are a wonderful person!
2007-03-23 11:04:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angel - You need to stay true to yourself. Be who you are and stop worrying about making friends.....just find a hobby and the rest will fall into place. High school seems long, but it will be over before you know it.
Here is a little story about just that.
The pastor entered his donkey in a race and it won. The pastor was so pleased with the donkey that he entered it in the race again, and it won again.
The local paper read:
PASTOR'S A*S OUT FRONT
The Bishop was so upset with this kind of publicity that he ordered the pastor not to enter the donkey in another race. The next day, the local paper headline read:
BISHOP SCRATCHES PASTOR'S A*S
This was too much for the Bishop, so he ordered the pastor to get rid of the donkey. The pastor decided to give it to a nun in a nearby convent. The local paper, hearing of the news, posted the following headline the next day:
NUN HAS BEST A*S IN TOWN
The Bishop fainted. He informed the nun that she would have to get rid of the donkey, so she sold it to a farmer for $10. the next day the paper read:
NUN SELLS A*S FOR $10
This was too much for the Bishop, so he ordered the nun to buy back the donkey and lead it to the plains where it could run wild. The next day the headlines read:
NUN ANNOUNCES HER A*S IS WILD AND FREE
The Bishop was buried the next day.
The moral of the story is...being concerned about public opinion can bring you much grief and misery...and even shorten your life. So be yourself and enjoy life...Stop worrying about everyone else's a*s and you'll be a lot happier and live longer!
2007-03-23 11:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great way to make friends is to join a club, group, or sport. Continue to be yourself.
I was depressed earlier this year because of a death in the family.
Keep trying, you'll feel better.
I read in a Teen magazine that sometimes pretending to be happy and laughing can start to make you happier.
Listen to music, wear bright colors, take a shower when you feel bad at home.
I'm sure you'll find friends, and I hope that you do.
2007-03-23 11:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by Leroy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how far away did you move? If its not that far maybe you can set things up with both sets of parents to meet 1/2 way some times
When we left Ft Bragg NC and came to MO we did this with my daughters friend, they would share 1 month in the summer and they talked all the time on the phone, they e mailed and so on. Maybe you are trying to hard.
Try to sit back and be your self and what is your intrest? are there any kids around you who shares that intrest? if not you are 14 get into baby sitting dog walking to earn money and keep your self busy. Cheer up Kid-O
2007-03-23 12:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Peggy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, being yourself is always a good way to go...I'm sorry that others have judged you not for who you are but or who they think you are. Walk tall and be proud of yourself. Confidence opens people up. Maybe they're just as afraid of you as you are of them. Try opening a new conversation with someone. Smiling is good too...it's very contagious! Make new friends where you are...it's good to keep in touch with old friends, but new friends are just as good. You haven't changed...the only thing that has changed is the people around you. Love your family...it's the only family you get.
2007-03-23 11:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think you are 14 or even a teenager. I think that you are an adult trying to play on the sympathy of teens with the hopes of finding one with whom you can begin a series of conversations that will lead to nothing good.
If you really are 14 and all of what you wrote is true, then read the other answers. If you are as I suggest, then I suspect you should stop this game and get help. I've added you to my watch list.
2007-03-23 11:13:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You try to help your classmates in any manner you can, like in studies, sports etc you will have friends as much as you want.
Ans. from Khi., Pakistan.
2007-03-23 11:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋